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why did you like this book or what made it most stick out to you?
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Jan 22, 2013 03:29PM

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I agree with you that people that cut are not all sent to a mental hospital because like you i know people that have cut before and none of them have been sent to a mental hospital. No cutting is not a good thing but if someone does it they shouldnt be encourged to do it but should be gotten help like you said by eaither therapy or by some other means. i have learned that cutting is not a permantent solution. How did you come across this book in the first place? i mean did a friend introduce it to you or a teacher?

I'd say I stumbled upon it five or six years ago on amazon.com and it intrigued me. At that time, I hadn't read many books that dealt with cutting and since cutting was such a large part of my life, I decided to check it out. The writing wasn't too bad but the content could have been better. To me, the book built up cutting to be this horrible nightmare of a problem that being committed to an institute can solve. Sometimes it's simpler than that. Having a good friend to talk to can help or just changing your lifestyle. It depends on the person.
No, cutting is not a solution, but there are a variety of reasons people do it. I have four nieces and it's hard to hide my scars from them. I've lied to them about where the scars came from but I've stopped doing that. I don't want to be ashamed of what I've done but I don't want to make it look like it's something they should do if they're frustrated or angry with thier life. I always encourage cutters, young or old, that therapy can help. It doesn't completely erase the urge but it helps them manage their emotions so that they aren't always compelled to hurt themselves.


thanks for the insight and i will check it out cuz it sounds like a really good book to read.
