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Jackie - Fire & Ice Book Reviews
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Mar 12, 2013 11:23AM
I think it's natural to be curious right? I have never acted on my curiosity though. Maybe I never will, only the future will tell.
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I've never really questioned it. I've known from a young age that I was sexually interested in girls.I only dated boys to be 'normal' in junior high and high school. But it didn't feel 'normal' for me... it felt awkward, weird, and wrong.
I don't have anything against guys. I have lots of guy friends, but sexually I'm just not compatible with men.
I am curious about the people who question though, and I'd love to read some experiences and stuff.
I tried dating a guy last year, but I had no feelings for him and I haven't been attracted to any girls. I think I may be asexual.
Or you just haven't found the right person yet, that you're interested in. Just give it time, maybe it will happen.
I've been questioning for a while. But it's more the opposite of what people would expect. I know I prefer girls, I'm just questioning over whether I could ever see myself with a guy...
Jessy wrote: "@L. I say that if you have the feeling in your gut that you are asexual then maybe you are. I've never met an asexual but have no problem with it."
The thing is that I don't know. Truthfully, I don't really know what love feels like.
The thing is that I don't know. Truthfully, I don't really know what love feels like.
L. *メルトダウン* wrote: The thing is that I don't know."
Just keep an open mind. When you go looking for love, it is love that ends up finding you and in the most unexpected places. You'll know when you've found it; the feeling is unmistakable.
I consider myself bi because I am attracted to men though the idea of having sex with them is just weird, even kissing feels awkward compared to with girls when it's just more comfortable, does that make sense?
I'm here too if you need to talk
If you ever need a male perspective or opinion or just to ask that question which has been bugging you....I'm here. :0)
I'm straight but I have a few gay friends and I love them and really don't care what their sexual preferences are. We're all people, right?
Yep i knw u do gurl nd ur gonna do a hell of a job... nd to be honest i think their is a lot of LGBT activist out their people er nt jst listening to them...
I'm a rebel and proud of it. A non conformist, I will always be myself and never try to fit someone else's idea of who I should be.
If you're a rebel/non conformist, say CHEERS!!
If you're a rebel/non conformist, say CHEERS!!
Kyle wrote: "If you're a rebel/non conformist, say CHEERS!!"
CHEERS!
Althought it's really more like my "give-a-shit" meter broke and I don't care what people say about me now, haha. :P
@Flo, I just tell them "I'm here, I'm queer, now stay out of my bedroom and leave me alone."
ive thought of acting on my curiousity but havent.......probably never will since the only girl i like is as straight as a straight edged ruler *sigh*
Oh, I'm sorry. I'm here if you need to talk
I have always questioned why i am like i Am, my mistakes, and a lot of other things, but I never act on my curiosity because: Curiosity killed the cat
i don't know what I am. It keeps me up at night, it tears me apart and it makes me worry. I thought I liked guys, I don't know. I was always closer to girls and wanted someone I could always have with me. Then one day first day of high school I walked into home room and there was this girl and I suddenly felt really wierd inside. I'm not girly I'm not like a total jock either though, I'm more... Weird, or something. But anyway, there have been more times when I've seen girls and I just kind of felt... This is so difficult. Aaaanyway I don't really get jittery around guys as often but I think I probably have liked them at points. So I don't know. I've read books and articles and nothing is helping. I just want to know what I am!
Being a teenager is all about trying to figure yourself out. NEVER let that bother you! You might be bi, but whatever you are don't let it be a problem.
I'm pretty sure I'm no but people will tremble me "it's just a phase" or "everyone has tendencies" It probably doesn't help that I'm surrounded by people who donate support lgbt community and my parents are homophobic




