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Apr 11, 2014 09:00PM
Hey! So this discussion is about guys and if you have tips or questions or need help with some guy trouble talk about it, get your word out, or get help for your word! XD
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Niiiiice... :D
Okay, yeah, fair enough -- this group is for writers to connect, and romance is a very strong topic and inspiration that makes for beautiful writing. Or we can all just chat about crushes, whatever, hehe...good one, RLF!
I must ask, though...what is RLF for?
Really Lovely Fairy?
Ranting Lemonade Fountain?
Romantic Lalala-ing Firewoman?
Okay, now I'm really curious :D
Okay, yeah, fair enough -- this group is for writers to connect, and romance is a very strong topic and inspiration that makes for beautiful writing. Or we can all just chat about crushes, whatever, hehe...good one, RLF!
I must ask, though...what is RLF for?
Really Lovely Fairy?
Ranting Lemonade Fountain?
Romantic Lalala-ing Firewoman?
Okay, now I'm really curious :D
Haha for my name, Rachael Larissa Fierro. (Although I might like the thought of Really Lovely Fairy.)
So I have a question for both of you. What is the longest you guys have liked a guy?
Oooh. Let's see. Five years.
(Which swiftly ended about four months ago, when I FINALLY realised that the aforementioned guy had a girlfriend. Erk.)
(Which swiftly ended about four months ago, when I FINALLY realised that the aforementioned guy had a girlfriend. Erk.)
Oh my gosh! That is such a long time! I like the guy I currently like for about two years. (He got 1 girlfriend during that time, but she cheated on him, and I think he used her to try and make me jealous... Id walk down the hall and he would be standing by her, then all of a sudden he would be holding her had or touching her hair, but while he would do that he would stare at me a bunch....) I still like him, but Im kinda shy... (with him and like thats all...)
So I guess I'll be the first to ask for advice, Im in High school and I don;t have any classes with my crush and I want to talk to him (duh) But I don't know how, the only time I see him is in the hall, I run into him several times thru out the day, What could I do to make him want to talk to me?
Riiiight, let's see then...
The main idea would be, then, to catch up with him outside of school. Bumping into him in the hallway may not be enough, maybe, so try inviting him to a party or something. I'm not suggesting you ask him out on a date (but if you do, then YAY for being brave!), but if there will be lots of people at this party/event, he won't feel pressured.
Basically, just try to find time in the weekend, perhaps, to catch up with a bunch of friends (that just happens to include The Guy). A movie could well be an option, even -- if you make Guy feel like he is involved in your own circle of friends, he will be ultra-easy to talk to. If he's comfortable around you and your friends, then asking him out will be than much easier :D
The main idea would be, then, to catch up with him outside of school. Bumping into him in the hallway may not be enough, maybe, so try inviting him to a party or something. I'm not suggesting you ask him out on a date (but if you do, then YAY for being brave!), but if there will be lots of people at this party/event, he won't feel pressured.
Basically, just try to find time in the weekend, perhaps, to catch up with a bunch of friends (that just happens to include The Guy). A movie could well be an option, even -- if you make Guy feel like he is involved in your own circle of friends, he will be ultra-easy to talk to. If he's comfortable around you and your friends, then asking him out will be than much easier :D
In response to the previous question, about five years as well. Family friends. Sadly he's kind of changed a lot and is very different from who he used to be. I don't know if I like him anymore. :(
No problem with changing your mind :)
Thanks Anastasia! I'll try, but I get kinda shy too. ( I've been told that he is a somewhat shy person as well.) Kipling, Im sorry, I agree with Anastasia, there is no problem with changing your mind, after all, he changed him self. :D
I'd have to say our relationship lasted about a year maybe a little less then that, he was cheating on me with some girl, and I'm still now suspicious of other guys now go out with me. But, it's close to impossible to find another gay guy to date, but in more recent news my crush and I are finally dating so, yay!
YAY! Congratulations! Im so so sorry that your ex cheated, that is so horrible! Im sorry, some people in this world lack compassion, so Im sorry, and Congrats! :D
About your guy problem RLF I agree with Anastasia. You could always ask one of your friends to approach him if you're shy and invite him to a party or something that you're going to be at. I know how u feel, I'm shy too :)
Haha thanks! I have my guy best friend who knows him and I told him that I like this guy, he said he can try to strike a conversation between us, I hope so, but.... Im kinda shy, the party thing would be cool, but, I don't usually go to partys, (Not to much my thing... Or more like I don't get asked... that often.. ) Thank you for your help its great help Kipling! :D
Thanks! Do you need any advice? (Im good at giving it.. Just taking my own is kinda hard.. :D
And honestly, don't worry - I've never been to a party in my life!
*crawls away and dies in cyberspace*
*then is resurrected because Mum just made cupcakes*
*crawls away and dies in cyberspace*
*then is resurrected because Mum just made cupcakes*
Contest, peoples! Action stations! Woot woot!
Not at the moment but thanks RLF! I probably will adventually :)
Okay I have a random question for you guys (you don't have to answer if you think it's too personal)! How old r u?
I am 12.I have this crush on a guy and I sit next to him in almost every class. I think he likes me back but we're in sixth grade and I don't want to be dating at all (yet). Plus my friend, who sits on the other side of him, who is always raising her eyebrows at me when I'm around him. She stops...sometimes.
16.Vinita, I understand where your coming from, maybe you just try to be friends with him, it may help you get to know him and see if maybe you still like him, be his friend for as long as it takes until your ready to date, by that time you may like him still or not, but at least you would know him. :D Oh and why don't you simply explain to your friend where you are coming from, that it bothers you and that maybe she should stop. If she doesn't do something more embarrassing to her when she gets a crush, that way she will stop. :D
I hope this advice can help! good luck!
And Anastasia? Can I HAVE A CUPCAKE?!?!? :D
I've known him since third grade, but I can still know more about him. I have talked to her. But do you have a friend that's really annoying, but you can't live without? That is basically our relationship. She doesn't have a crush and if she does she hasn't told me. The odds are NOT in my favor. (Hunger Games Joke) Thanks anyway!Can I have a cupcake?
Haha your welcome, just trying to give some good advice! (My best friend is so like that, but so am I with her!) but may the odds be ever in your favor! Welcome!
Cool I'm 13. Vinita I know how you feel about not wanting to date. It would b awesome if he liked u back, but u probably want to stay clear of dating until you're older. Trust me, when I was in sixth grade it was all about dating and there was way too much drama because of it. It's was really stupid, I think people your age (and mine cause I'm only a year older) are still kind of to young to date. But good luck!! You could always be fronds that like each other :)What's this about cupcakes?!?!
Haha Anastasia said she crawled off and died in cyber space, and was resurrected because her mom made cupcakes, and cupcakes sound good and I want some of them! :D
RIGHT! I love cupcakes especially chocolate ones! Mmmm... Yummy!
Thanks for the advice. We are kinda friends. I could go for some cupcakes.
Welcome and good luck! I know so could I! But... I can't find any cake batter in my house!! :(
CUPCAKES for EVERYONE! Yaaaaaay!
They're cupcake-flavoured :P
They're cupcake-flavoured :P
Scribblers and Cupcake-lovers of the World Unite!
Haha ,DORKS Scribblers and Cupcake/ book-Lovers of the world UNITED! :D
:D Yes I know I am! er...Uh.. Yes we all are!
LOL reading through these messages are hilarious XD , I'm 13 too ^_^
I Know I've read thru them a couple of times, and its so hilarious! :D
