#Troubles discussion

Here ya go! Go crazy!

I have no relationship... Well Kevin but no one cares

I care Maple!

XD thanks. I can always count on my gr family

XD same here

I have three families- my immediate family, my basketball family and my gr family. I love them all.

Same I have my blood family, including my cousin and our other relatives, my Gr and all of my online family (I actually consider them all as my family, not by blood but by heart), my Fictional family, from my fav books/anime, don't judge, and my fav bands even tho they don't know I exist, shhh XDD

XD I get you only I have to talk to my family to consider them family. If all my families were at a reunion, it would be a huge reunion! Like HUGE!!!!!

True. in my head, I consider those band members as a family XD

Im not so crazy about bands and stuff. I like Green Day and the Beetles but past that I just pick and choose songs I like.

Omg yes totally, Empress! (Can I call u Em?)
Don't even get me started on the guy I like. Although I'm pretty sure I fancy myself in love with him....ugh I can't talk abt this with anyone except my gr fam cuz everyone is so judgy

Cool beans Em. Btw u can call me whatever u want I don't rly care lol.

Empress_of_Books wrote: "So, um, there's this boy in my class that I really really really like. I'm actually really (gawd, Em, how many times are you going to say "really"?) good friends with him but I'm afraid that that's..."

You should go talk to him and tell him how you feel.

Ask him to go just as friends and see where that takes you. i suck at advice i know. I've never been in a relationship and the guy I like is WAY older so...

Hmm... Idk maybe you could just tell him then? Try the fearless tactic. Like: "look. I like u. I get it if u don't feel the same, but can we still be friends?"
I mean what's the worst that can happen? He looks at u funny? Stops hanging with u, acts awkward around u? Well that's HIS loss.
I know I know it's easier said than done. My troubles r different tho. I'm only 15 and the guy I like is much older. Plus our relationship is weird

No problem, hun

Ugh now I feel like I have to tell you guys about my crush problems with Kevin. XD Imma copy it from my gr journal later. It's in We are Unique.

Lol no u don't have to! I mean sure if u wanna. This isn't like group therapy or whatever. I mean I've never told anyone abt my major crush on a totally older guy until now

Oh my wow- never have a crush on your best friend's older brother. I kept it a secret for the first two years of MS then she found out. At first she was happy cuz we would be inlaws. Then she was weirded out and I wasn't allowed to bring it up because she got too uncomfortable.

No. I wanna tell. I love telling stories and talking. Im an open book.

I am here, Maple. :)

*echo's * Same!.... same!........same!..............same!.....................same...........................

Guys help me!!! I'm having a love crisis

*pulls out clipboard.* never fear Stream! Your therapist is here!!!!!

Tell us dear kavya

Stream, r u here?

I'm here

Spill your guts

So, here's the thing, so there is this guy in my Science class, who sits next to me, and is also my friend, I've seen him around before last year, but we'd only known each other for only 3 weeks, but he'd been really nice to me, and stuff, and he's a Potterhead and a Bookworm, just like me, I know this because I'd seen him in class reading a Harry Potter book, and last year, I went to the Library everyday before school, to hang out, and I'd seen him around a couple time, reading a book. And now I'm like questioning myself, and idk whether I have a crush on him or whether I just want him as a friend. But my heart is aching for him. But I'm also still in love with my ex, and my heart is aching for him as well. What should I do? What should I do when my heart is aching for two different people, and there is no chance that I can have either of them?

and another thing, this year, I wanted to take a break from all this relationship and crush stuff, for a while. and then here I am with my heart aching for two different ppl, which is my ex-bf and another guy. Last year I promised myself that I wouldn't get any crush on anyone because it hurts, but then my ex comes along, and then we became friends and I start getting some feelings for him, and then I started falling for him and then we dated for a month before we broke up and I'm still in love with him. And now I starting to get a crush on that other guy in my science class. Like, I can hardly contain my blushing, and I keep feeling warmth in my chest whenever I think about both of them. And I can't get either of them off my mind no matter how hard I try...

I don't want this to become like a love triangle...x.x...I hate love triangles. I don't like hurting ppl...

Love is hard...x.x...

Kavya! Pray tell what troubles u my dear?

Darn now I have to read the giant post xD no Just kiddin

XD

@kavya
1) y did u and ur bf break up?
2) u should wait and c what happens with both of them
3) maybe try going out w science boy and c if u fall for him?

Great now Im thinking of my love life... I REALLY liked my best friends brother for a VERY long time. He was always so nice to me but I think I pushed him away a lot bc it kinda freaked me out. I wish I had let him in more because we couldve at least been friends and stuff. Oh dear. I still think about him a lot even though theres Kevin... Goodness Stream. I cant help because its too much like my current situation

Nicolina wrote: "@kavya
1) y did u and ur bf break up?
2) u should wait and c what happens with both of them
3) maybe try going out w science boy and c if u fall for him?"

1. he said that, We didn't have much in common besides anime, our personalities didn't go together and it was just him...
2. I'll try. Me and my ex, are still friends, but we barely see each other, and when we do see each other, all we say is just hi, and me and that other guy, barely talk to each other to, and we only say hi to each other, but then again, I haven't come out of my shell yet.
3. I'll try, but I need to try and get to know that science guy, a little bit more, before we can go out, because I have trust issues.

Ok sounds like a good plan

{Mapledream} The Amazing Onion ~ Dreaming of Potatoes wrote: "Great now Im thinking of my love life... I REALLY liked my best friends brother for a VERY long time. He was always so nice to me but I think I pushed him away a lot bc it kinda freaked me out. I w..."

oh wow, another thing, is that those two guys that My heart is aching for, are really nice and all, but I'm also really scared that I'll get my heart broken again, and I don't just want anyone I want that special guy, that one guy that sees me from the inside, and won't judge me for being myself. My ex was that one person, and that other guy seems like that guy as well. I can kind of tell.

Does ur ex still like u? And u will nvr know if u nvr try to c if he's THE ONE

Love is a weird mystery

Nicolina wrote: "Does ur ex still like u? And u will nvr know if u nvr try to c if he's THE ONE"

idk, he was my first love, and I was his, so I don't think he can just stop loving me that easily

Aww that sounds sweet

{Mapledream} The Amazing Onion ~ Dreaming of Potatoes wrote: "Love is a weird mystery"

And I agree with that.

I fink 87% of people do

lol why can't some guys be like the guys in the books? lol some guys are nice tho, everyone is different after all lol Don't you guys ever feel like you life is like a book?

My life will be a book. I plan on writing an autobiography: My Life As President

XD I was planning to write an autobiography on all of the bad and good things that happened to me but then I forgot. lol

XD good job

Oh to be young again like all of you and to enjoy the rush of young love. But I enjoy the reality of deeper love now that I am older. To love someone who knows me inside and out , who accepts me for me, knows all my faults and still thinks I am beautiful,who wakes up in the morning and smiles because I am his, who takes care of me and worries when I am ill, who cooks for me just because, that and a hundred things more all because he loves me and I love him. I wish that for all of you when you reach that point.

Thanks

Hey guys, I've got some more guy trouble...It's not really a relationship thing...but more friendship sorta thing....if that counts as a relationship thing...idk....

Relationship is all persons and animals. Shoot