The Problem Solvers discussion

Good idea! This topic was very much needed. ;P

Do you really like him? or is this a simple crush?

Does he know you? Like you know talk with you?

❧ ωαяƖσяɗєѕѕ ❦ нєƖƖ ση нєєƖѕ ☙ wrote: "Hey guys...
So I'm a fencer and at the club where I fence there's a boy that I kind of like. He's a few years older than me and I'm afraid he'll think I'm too young if I say I like him."

How old is he?

I've never dated. I've had crushes before...

❧ ωαяƖσяɗєѕѕ ❦ нєƖƖ ση нєєƖѕ ☙ wrote: "I'm fourteen, he's sixteen"

GIRLLLL SAMEE!!!! My "friend with extras" is 16 and Im 14! Its only 2 years and thats not bad

He likes me I like him....the age is really not bad

❧ ωαяƖσяɗєѕѕ ❦ нєƖƖ ση нєєƖѕ ☙ wrote: "He said I was really mature once but I'm not always super mature at fencing because it's my happy place"

Hey, Im almost NEVER mature XD

❧ ωαяƖσяɗєѕѕ ❦ нєƖƖ ση нєєƖѕ ☙ wrote: "He's short for his age..."

so is my boyfriend and he gets picked on all the time and it makes me mad

so im an inch taller.... does that even matter? i find him adorable

it's so cute when he has to be the one to go on his tippy toes to reach me. <3
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it just bugs me. hes my bby and I want him to feel good about himself but when people constantly tease him...

I saw the guy, that I've liked since 1st grade the other day. I never forgot him and he didn't forget me. I have another guy that I like and have been hanging out with lately. I have no idea which one to go with. I haven't seen the first guy for 4 years.

well it you haven'y seen him for four years God is trying to tell you he's probably not the one for you ... it happened to my first guy

Well I've seen him and we're talking more lately.

thats good i'm no help then lol

So, today's Valentine's Day and all.
My crush, whom I've liked for a while now, asked me out today. I was really excited and all, until later, I found out it had been a joke. For the rest of the day he was a jerk. Should I say something to him? I'm really upset about it, and really pissed at him.

You don't need a jerk like that in ur like

*life

I can't exactly avoid him either, he is in five of my classes, and somehow integrated into our friend group, and is my partner for solo ensemble for choir.

Just don't let it get to you then.

Dasha ~Made of bad materials, yet well put together~ wrote: "Fairy`~Kaneki Ken did nothing wrong`~ wrote: "So, today's Valentine's Day and all.
My crush, whom I've liked for a while now, asked me out today. I was really excited and all, until later, I found ..."

He was such a jerk today, During Choir we had to preform our duet for the class. I jokingly said to one of my friends that I didn't want to preform and I heard him say "Of course you don't" in a very rude manor.

Fairy wrote: "Dasha ~Made of bad materials, yet well put together~ wrote: "Fairy`~Kaneki Ken did nothing wrong`~ wrote: "So, today's Valentine's Day and all.
My crush, whom I've liked for a while now, asked me o..."

Gosh, well, people don't realize they hurt you sometimes. I know I for one, like to be sarcastic, not in a mean way, but sometimes people still give me weird looks as if silently asking if I was joking.

I need help. This one girl, I loved her so much but the day after valentines day she broke up with me. What do I do now? should I start dating again or just wait?

okay thank you skye :)

So um the guy who asked me out as a joke, asked out my best friend two days later. She said yes. After saying two days earlier, that she hated him. And today, he slapped me across the face when I said something he didn't like.

OUCH LET ME AT HIM!!!

He's such an idiot. His girlfriend, who again, is my best friend, didn't even do anything. But my other friend did slap him back:)

That sucks :(

So if a guy hugs you and kisses and ywt doesn't ask you out ... is that good or bad? Should I tell him to go? Or let him keep doing it?

There isn't really anything I can do anyways:(

Haley wrote: "So if a guy hugs you and kisses and ywt doesn't ask you out ... is that good or bad? Should I tell him to go? Or let him keep doing it?"

It depends Haley... Is he hugging you in a friendly manner as in a friend? Like maybe he does want to ask you, but is shy.. Or it could mean he just likes you has a friend... Idk.. Just ask him..

Fairy wrote: "There isn't really anything I can do anyways:("

That sucks :( at least you've still got us :)

Like walks up behind me and hugs me... Hes been like this for a few weeks now and every time i think hes gonna ask me out he hugs me plants a kiss and walks off

That sucks :(

Haley wrote: "Like walks up behind me and hugs me... Hes been like this for a few weeks now and every time i think hes gonna ask me out he hugs me plants a kiss and walks off"

Idk that sucks.. ;(

Sighs

Plants a kiss on your lips?

NerdyJediGymnast wrote: "Plants a kiss on your lips?"

That's what I was wondering..?

Yes

................
And HASNT asked you out?

Nope not a single question

Hmm

Either he's waiting for the right moment or HE wants YOU to make the move :/

Guys are weird.....well most of them, except for some.....

No, guys are weird

I dont know why

Agreed. One minute, they're all nice, the next, they're being total d-bags.

Yeah

Haley wrote: "Nope not a single question"

Well, maybe you should ask him how you feel.. You know? You don't want him taking advantage of you for just letting him. But, also don't get me wrong - He could like you and is just too shy.. Either way.. Idk

Do you REALLY like him? Maybe you should talk to him