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we all need to get things off our chest. nobody will judge, and rant as long a you need.

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okay i’m gonna rant lol
so basically my best friend dated someone last year but then they stopped talking and he got a new phone without her number. but she still had his number and she texted him yesterday and said she still likes him and stuff so it started this big thing bc she’s not really a good person and i told him that he can’t date her and i got caught in the middle of all the drama and there was a big fight and stuff. so anyway, i asked one of my other friends (i’m gonna call her sally) to try to convince him that he can’t date her and i told sally she can say whatever she wants. WELL THAT WAS A MISTAKE bc she told him that i like him a lot and told him not to tell me. it would’ve been easier if he didn’t tell me but he sent me a screenshot and now i don’t know how to respond. i actually used to really like him but now i’m kinda confused bc like if i think abt actually dating him im like ew no thanks. but at the same time i care for him a lot and i want what’s best for him. but i feel like if i just say no im not being honest but if i say yes that’s gonna start a whole new thing so right now i just made an excuse but im like internally panicking rn and he’s typing again help 😭😭 anyway thanks for reading this lol if you have advice please tell me bc im going crazy

Thats a awkward situation I would try to explain that you want whats best for him wether thats dating him or not

thanks guyss
he’s currently spamming me that i like him and if i say anything he just says ok
at least it worked lol bc he said he’s not gonna date the other girl now but we will see how that works out

Niceeee

I have a vent

So basically I've decided I needed to change some things about me/my life so I started reading my Bible more and I started dieting and by dieting I mean intermittent fasting so for the past few days I've been skipping breakfast and lunch eating a snack with protein around 4 and eating dinner around 6-8 and I feel great but a few of my siblings think its a bad idea so idk if I should stop or not

i think that if it makes you feel good and it’s not dangerous or anything, then you should keep doing it! but if it’s a health risk and your siblings are worried for good reason, then you might want to consider stopping

Thanks Holly 😊

So I’m gonna vent for a second lol :
Last night we had a fun dance , everyone got dressed up and hung out with friends.
Well I found out from a friend of mine that my ex , who I am on good terms with , basically talked bad about me behind my back , like constantly.
And - I decided to confront him about it .
He said “sorry 😬” and that was it . I’m still angry about it because what he said was not only untrue , it hurt .

Two years ago a friend of mine kissed me “ to cheer me up” after my breakup with my ex.
My ex and I had broken up , he constantly flirted with other girls during the relationship and we finally broke it off after we couldn’t stop arguing .
Well two years later he apologized and we start making up .
Found out we’re 11th cousins . And he told my friend that he can’t date me again because we’re cousins.
But he basically went around telling people that me and my friend - let’s call him “Jake” made out ,
We didn’t . we just kissed that was it.
So - I got upset and I don’t let anyone talk bad about me at all so I asked him why .
Was I wrong to do that?

@ bailey, that’s a lot but no i personally don’t think you were wrong to do that you had justified reasons to do so, so no one can judge you do doing it. :)

That's awful I hope this all clears up for you Bailey

that's awful

Thank you all for listening to me! I appreciate it!
I’m doing okay ,
It’s so hard tho when your such good friends with his parents 😂😂
I love his parents , not him 😂

11th cousins??? in my opinion that doesn’t even count as cousins lol if you’re like 1st or 2nd or even 3rd cousins it’s kinda weird but 11th cousins are like non-existent lol

11th cousins is really far back now that I'm thinking about it lol

that is so sad!!! im really sorry that happened to you so i’ll pray for you!!!!

That’s what I say! We’re not even cousins by blood either! Just by marriage! It’s so annoying but he and I tried to be friends and - finding out he’s telling people something happened that didng - it makes me want to cry

But thank you for the listening ears and the prayers!

Hi, I’m so sorry for y’all, I’ll be praying for all of you!
@ holly, how are things now? How are you holding up?
@ Bailey I’m so sorry, how are things with you love?

hi zoey, thanks for asking! it was really awkward, but i just told him that i don’t want him to date bad people and i care abt him and stuff. he didn’t respond but he saved the chat and we’re kinda pretending nothing happened now lol. the girl is still texting him which is kinda annoying, but he basically said “ok” or “idk” everytime she says something so maybe she will get bored and stop lol.

noooo!!! thats so sad!! i will pray for youuuuuu!!!!!
here is my piece of advice, don’t date until you think you might marry the person. dont date for fun or out of insecurity, the only man you’ll ever REALLY need in your life is JAYSUS

Yesss Heidi *high five *, I’m so sorry love, I’m glad it’s getting better though I’ll be praying for you <3

:)

Zoey , thank you for asking , things are okay , I’m having a lot of trouble even getting out of bed everyday but I’m making myself.
I would appreciate prayers!

@Bailey, of course! We all feel that way sometimes I’m glad your pushing through. Yes I’ll be praying <3

I'll be praying for you Bailey

ok so like a little update on my little drama situation:
i’m not sure if i mentioned her, but my best friends ex’s friend (gonna call her linda) who also used to be my friend, has been texting my bestie (who i’m gonna call rob lol). so basically she won’t let all of this go and randomly texts him. she will be like “do you wanna date [girls name]?” and he will say “no” and she will say “ok why” and he says “bc i don’t like her” and then she’s like “ok…well will you date her in a few months” and he’s like “um…no”
so anyways i asked my mom for advice and she told me that linda was picking on rob bc she wanted to annoy me and get me to say i like him. so i had the idea that if i told linda that i like rob she would stop. so i asked rob and now linda is trying to get us to date lol.
but honestly it’s not awkward at all bc we have been making jokes about being a couple and dating and how we would get married one day lol. i’m just kinda shocked how quickly she moved on from the other girl to try to get us to date honestly. but hopefully all the drama is gone (for now) !!!

Linda sounds kinda crazy

yea fr lol

Lol

Linda sounds quite delulu, there’s someone in my life like her .
You should cut her off if you can , and ignore her

i second that. toxic relationships drag you down to the very hard bottom. i have had a few bad relationships, one that i am majorly struggling to let go of, and they hurt you more than you know. but this is also an extreme…

thanks guys! she used to be my best friend, but then we started going to the same school and we kinda drifted apart. :/ now i realize that’s she kinda mean, and that i don’t want her to influence my life. so i try to ignore her mostly, i still talk to her from time to time, as i’m not gonna be plain rude lol.

but yeah, thank you guys lol!

good for you!!! i know its not easy slowly losing a friend but it is really great of you to be taking a stand. ✊