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lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments okay y'all so ive liked this guy for a while now but im pretty sure hes had 2 girlfriends this year so i kinda js got over it and was like whatever, but i dont know if hes dating anyone rn and i really wanna talk to him since we have a class together but i dont want to because idk if he has a girlfriend, and im not allowed to have any social media so i cant add him or anything.


message 2: by Faith (new)

Faith Anne | 8 comments my advice ~ go for it. you only have 1 life girl. who cares if it doesn't work out? who cares if he says no? show him you're worth the time and if he doesn't want u show him he missed an amazing opportunity. this could be your only chance to go and get him, so... GO GET HIM!!! talk to him in one of your classes. smile. say goodmorning/afternoon. smile at him in the hallway. start out as friends and then... WELL, KEEP ME UPDATED. go for it boo.


Natalie ♡ (hiatus till September) Idk but i would just talk to him and get to know him first in class, then deal with the girlfriend stuff.


message 4: by Shi (new)

Shi  - Jesus is my savior 💕 (shianna4-12-25) | 504 comments Talk to him or flirt with him if he flirts back then you know he could be in to you but I would definitely talk to him you know know he might just want you to be his girlfriend. Oh and whenever you see him at school tell him Hi that works too


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments idk im so scared to bc we sit on opposite sides of the classroom and i feel like its weird to js randomly talk to someone especially cause i think his ex or gf is in the same class


message 6: by Shi (new)

Shi  - Jesus is my savior 💕 (shianna4-12-25) | 504 comments That makes sense when you see him in the hallway talk to him then or bump into him on accident then he will be sure to notice you


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments ok i might try to do that but i dont see him in the hallway a lot


message 8: by Faith (new)

Faith Anne | 8 comments try smiling at him from across the room? make eye contact but like smile while u do it so it's not awkward


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments ok i'll try that todayy


message 10: by ella (new)

ella | 2651 comments I saw this title the first thing I thought was "you can't help boys". you could just straight up ask him if he has a gf. it's better to just get right to the point instead of guessing.


message 11: by ella (new)

ella | 2651 comments there is no harm in asking. he would either way yes or no.


message 12: by angie (new)

angie (angiemoreno) | 123 comments if u guys have a class together maybe try to start a conversation about something from that and see how things work out from there


message 13: by Nia (new)

Nia Racz (antniner) | 3 comments I have no advice because i know for a fact if i was you i wouldn't do anything either but I'm living for this i need updates because this is like a romcom!


message 14: by Gig (new)

Gig | 50 comments omgg yess theres no harm in asking girl!! def shoot ur shot! I'm invested!!


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments so i was gonna try and smile at him today but in our class we got to move seats and he went to go sit w one of the girls i think he used to date but im not sure 😬😬 and its rly hard to start a convo bc we have to sit in opposite sides of the room.


message 16: by Abby (new)

Abby | 9 comments Guys how do i get my ex back!!! i orginaly broke up with him because i was having mental health issues and he understood. but I ended up doing some questionable stuff with other guys and I told him because I wanted to tell him the truth. a couple of weeks ago I finally got to a point where I wanted to date him again and he was at a good place to do that too. but after we decided to get back together a day later I told him I wasn't ready, and I really messed up. i was still having mental health issues and also started talking to other guys and didn't wanna cheat on him. but then I stopped talking to guys and am trying to text him and get him back but he is mad af at me for "playing with his heart". i never tried to do that too him, but also he was very in love with me while we were together and we still to this say love each other. I told l him I'm better now and wanna commit to him and also that I cut off all guys. he just doesn't believe me, which is fair, but also seems really done with me. i just don't know what to do because I messed up sooo bad but I still love him very much and want to be with him.


message 17: by Hannah (new)

Hannah ♡♤♧◇ | 35 comments I would personally maybe try to meet with him. And see if he would talk to you that way. Perhaps a calm setting out in public. The worst that could happen is that you don't end up together again. However, if that is the case, you both can get closure about it.


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments i think you need to take a few weeks instead of js jumping back with him


message 19: by Abby (new)

Abby | 9 comments yeah but its been 3 months since we broke up


message 20: by kitcantspell (new)

kitcantspell ( semi hiatus ) | -20 comments gonna be so fr, move on. both of you


message 21: by kitcantspell (new)

kitcantspell ( semi hiatus ) | -20 comments ( this is to abby lol )


lilly ♡ (semi-hiatus, slumpy) | 1445 comments maybe he wants space?


message 23: by Eralith (new)

Eralith | 105 comments Abby wrote: "Guys how do i get my ex back!!! i orginaly broke up with him because i was having mental health issues and he understood. but I ended up doing some questionable stuff with other guys and I told him..."

Honestly, I get where you’re coming from — you didn’t mean to hurt him, but from his side, it probably feels like a lot of back and forth. And when someone’s heart is involved, that can hit really deep. The best thing you can do right now is give him space. Like real, no-pressure, no-guilt space.
If he still loves you, time might help him heal and rebuild trust, but right now, trying to "fix it" too fast might just push him farther away.
Focus on staying consistent — keep working on yourself, show through actions that you’ve changed.
If he’s meant to come back, he will. But you also have to be ready for the chance that he might not, and that doesn’t mean you're unworthy or broken. It just means healing takes time — for both of you.


message 24: by Bianca (new)

Bianca | 12 comments girly pop you can do better then a woodland creature……..
run away to the Himalayan sea salt, Kirkland bottle
you can do betta than some lil twig that washed up on this place you call “school” or this place you call a “brain??”

ps. where can i find a feta cheese wheel “im from russia and i am new to Michigan.
/😶‍🌫️🤠🧝‍♂️👩‍🎤🙆‍♀️……………………………………………………


message 25: by Reya (new)

Reya | 2 comments I agree with Bianca…….

Young yoda once said “wise bacon has a mind of its own”…….
Know you must be wise bacon a make the wise choice to leave the green hobbit to it’s own quarantined universe……..
Terrence will be out on the world with his bow tie ready to find you……
Know make the choice wise bacon and leave the hobbit away and skip all the drama with skip the dishes. I have a 15% off discount cord for you if you leave the hobbit……..
Let your mind roam its path… just make sure you don’t stumble along any hobbits as they are quite small and you might miss them….
SKIP THE DISHES!!!🥓🧌🔫⏮️🍽️😶


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