right so 2 years ago i was in a group with 4 other people n,m,t and c. we would always walk around school and hang out and stuff however around summer n,t and m hung out without me and c and we kinda felt left out and stuff then we learned through n(we are best friends from before secondary school) that m and t were shit talking us behind our back so a whole thing went down and we kinda split up but then me n and t became a trio , with n and t being closer than me and t which i’ve always been fine with and accepted but then 2 -3 weeks ago n, t , m and another friend of theirs f went out without me and i kinda felt left out again cause like i only hang out with t and n now with m occasionally joining us (the original fall out kinda gets ignored now) so when i saw a pic of them all hanging out together i kinda felt like they don’t really actually want to be friends with me as me n and t haven’t hung out the entire term like i know we’ve been busy but still there was no effort made. due to all this ive kinda been overthinking and analysing all our texts / lack of texts and all interactions we have and i am very paranoid that they are hanging out without me when they avoid answering questions (whether that be they just didn’t see the message or take a while answering it after seeing it) i have had some of my other friends say that they see me being left out lots but obviously don’t step in cause like it’s my business i do appreciate their concern but im not really sure what to , should i talk to them about this or just see how it goes and also is it reasonable to be paranoid and if anyone has tips on not being so paranoid and overthinking so much that would be great <3
there is stuff that’s been left out so if it doesn’t make full sense that’s probably why as there is a lot that’s happened x
there is stuff that’s been left out so if it doesn’t make full sense that’s probably why as there is a lot that’s happened x