Relationships discussion

Do you like a guy, but don't know if he likes you back? Post here!

Ok, so there's this guy, and he and I are, like, besties, almost. I think he likes me, but I'm not sure.

Ok, so Jaidyn. I am in the EXACT same senario as you. I will tell you all of it too....I am too lazy to write it, so I will just copy it off of another group.........

ZAKARI!! W.O.W. You sure seem like a torn person! OK, so here is my first question:

How often do you hang out with

Guy #1:
Guy #2:
Guy #3:

So this is what happened to me about 3 weeks ago...

OMG!! Guess what this guy in my class said to me...

So, I've liked this guy for a while... and we are better friends then most... but we have never talked about like... crushing on eachother. But we were on the bus, and he had been a little ansy, but I ignored it. I was NOT in a good mood, and he was really trying his best to make me laugh, and, yes... finally I cracked. By now we were getting close to his house and he started to fall silent and look out the window. This is NOT like him especially around me, so I got a little suspisous.

Now I'm gonna change it up a little. So, I've heard rumors that today the world is supposed to end... don't adk me about it, I don't know anything, but yeah, that's what I've heard.

So abck to my story... we had talked about the world ending a bit... and as we got closer to his house and he started getting quiet, he all of a sudden brought the topic back up... i was confused, but went with it. And then, TOTALLY out of the blue, he said, "Well, Kellie (My best friend) I am sorry for all the bad stuff I did or said to you if the world will end tomorrow. And Brooke... I'm not sorry, but I'm gonna KISS YA!!" I covered my mouth, and couldn't help but burst out laughing, but I saw he was BRIGHT BRIGHT red and really embarassed, but he was laughing too.

I don't know what it means, or shy he said it, ut i am confused. i asked advice of Kellie, who was there, sitting with me, aand she said he probably like me, but I'm not sure...


Now, 3 weeks later, on Monday, he smirks at me as I get on the bus. I look at him weird, and he tells me he has a girlfriend. I am disappointed...thoughoghly...but I just smile and say, "Oh, what's he name?" he says, "Sara." I say where does she live? He says "_______" (sorry...can't say...but it's 3 hours away...) I burst out laughing. He turns bright red... that's about it... then after school on the bus, he sits in his seat a little closer than usual, and he had gotten a hair cut, so he says, "My girlfriend probably thinks I look gay now." (I kinda think he does...and I think he knows because I laughed when I saw it...) I smile. Then he says, "OK, Brooke. Just tell me what you think." I say, "Think about what?" He says, "Think about my HAIR." I just giggle and start talking to my friend.

Now that might not seem very weird... BUT the weird part is my friend and I are PRETTY darn sure that he was lying about the whole girlfriend thing... because he doesn't know her last name and he doesn't know much about her, and what he DOES know, he hesitated wih it all, like he was making it up.


Turns out, he WAS making it up. He said that he was just trying to make a girl in my class mad. (She has the BIGGEST crush on him ever! She will drop hints EVERY DAY that she likes him and wants to see him with no clothes...but it's like a creepy crush....she will sit there and stare at him for the WHOLE bus ride while he is ignoring her and talking to me. :) Anyways....back to the story))

So Kellie and I were like, why? and he didn't really give us a straight answer, other than he was just trying to make someone jealous....


What are your thoughts? What do you think he means?

Ok Brooke, I think this guy might have a crush on you and maybe you should drop a few hints to this guy to let him know you like him too if you're ready for a relationship with him.

Zakari, I think that you should take some time and see what happens, don't over think things either. If I were you, I would just hang back and wait for the boys to do something, maybe drop a couple hints and see how they react.

Ok...here's pretty much my whole story, sort of.


Ok, so there's this guy, Noah, and at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him. At all. We would always talk and insult each other but we never really meant it. Then I friended him on Facebook and we talked all the time. I asked for a truce and if we could be friends. He said yes. Then I was kinda happy for awhile. Then I got back into Xbox Live. I friended him on there and we talked like every day. We would tell dirty jokes to each other and were friends. We hung out a lot. So after awhile I began to like him more and more. But one of his best friends, Jackson, well, I liked him too. Then I didn't like him cuz his personality sucked. So over Xbox Live I told Noah that I like him then said I was joking. A month later I told him I was lying and I did like him. Then he told me that he like me, but said he was kidding and just wanted to see my reaction. I didn't have one because I knew he liked me because he would drop hints and flirt with me. The weird thing is I did the same thing...(about the "I like you but I'm just kidding" part) So ever since then, he ignores me and doesn't want to talk to me because I guess he knows I will want to talk about it. The End.

Hmmmmmmmmmmm........That is one weird situation! So, you like, like like him?

Yeah... But just recently. When we actually became close friends.

OK, well then....call him, and tell him that you aren't joking this time, and that you really like him.

I don't have his number...never asked. Even If I did it would end up all weird. He knows I really like him tho.

oh......

Yeah

Brooke wrote: "ZAKARI!! W.O.W. You sure seem like a torn person! OK, so here is my first question:

How often do you hang out with

Guy #1:
Guy #2:
Guy #3:"

Guy #1: I'm pretty much over, cuz he's always avoiding me when I see him... which I think is HILARIOUS. So, he's really out of the picture for me, but I just can't help having a crush on him...
-_-'

Guy#2: A ton! I see him every day at school and we have a load of fun together. =)

Guy #3: Every now and then, as often as we can.

Jaidyn, I think that you really need to just tell this guy how you sincerely feel

But what is it going to do?!

Then he'll know you're serious and not just playing around

I really don't think he cares. X( He'll probably be weirded out and never talk to me. Like now.

Then not much would change. You might as well try.

Ack! I could not face the embarrassment!

Trust me, it's a lot better if you tell him seriously than if you leave it at this. If you leave it at this it is just as bad as never saying anything, which is a mistake I have made a lot.

I'll think about it...

Well... I'll start with all my friend's advice of "get over him he doesn't like you". It hurts... But I don't let it show.
His name is Alex. He is kinda cute(to me, even though my friends think he is totally unappealing). He is really gothic and an extreme pyro. He's really sweet to his friends but really... not... to anybody else. He's a really bold guy. He's a genius- smartest kid in our class- but he's not a nerd at all. He's hated by just about every one of my friends and just about everyone else to. We've been really close friends. I really like him. He said he liked me to.
Here's the catch: he's moving. VERY soon. like... August 2nd soon... and... he hates me now.
Me being a total scardy cat, I was afraid to ask him out on Valentines day. I gave up and let my best friend ask him out instead. I suffered watching them hug and walk beside each other all the time. I kept the pain inside.
I had met another boy here GoodReads. We talked for a long while. I started texting him. I asked him out- he agreed. We were text dating for 3 months. Death broke up with Alex. She started cutting herself worse and that didn't help my steady depression. All the while, I was dating Andy, I was silently loving Alex. I lied SO MANY TIMES to everybody... Even myself. It's really difficult to lie to your heart. I would know. :'(
I always told Andy he was the only one I love. He'd always be the only one. I told Death, and Alex himself the same thing. I never told anyone I was trying to convince myself too...
I would see Alex in school every day. We would talk, mess around, etc. He's a very fun guy. I was teased at school by the 'preps' for hanging out with him. (They don't know when to be quiet).
Andy went off and sexted with some girls who were "just friends" and didn't tell me until like a month after and it was only "to make them happy". It hurt... But I let him get away with it because I felt like I was cheating on him as well... I don't know what I was thinking. *sigh* I let myself be trampled on because I felt unfaithful as well. Later, I dumped Andy. It was near the end of the school year and I just... Couldn't take the stress. But it put more stress on me with his threatening to commit suicide. I was his first girlfriend. I was the first person he had ever truly loved. And I was the one who "broke his heart". He should have thought about all the times he broke MY heart. I kept Alex a secret to avoid hurting EVERYONE. Maybe had I actually trusted myself and asked Alex out things would be better.
Well...
School ended. I was chatting with Alex on FaceBook:
http://www.goodreads.com/user_status/...
Chatting on FaceBook later:
http://www.goodreads.com/user_status/...

Zakari: It kind of seems like your feelings are much stronger for #3, like your heart was pounding and stuff with him but not the other guys...or did you just not mention it?

Lyla: Irk, that's a terrible situation :( I wish I could tell you something that would fix all that, but I don't know what would...I'm sorry >.<

I haz no crushes

except this boy....named Andrew...Andrew...


hes hawt, his hole long hair, fluffy long hair thats cute, his hair is dusty brown/blonde

braces~ love those

Hes dating my friend, they've been together for like 10 months now

me and andrew had to do this play together, and one of his lines were to me "here here my fine woman." We laughed so hard, and grew close. Having both the lead parts. He always made me laugh in the play, always. He poked my tummy and tickled me. I poked him back on his cheek, and on accident one day my friend Savana bumped into me, and I landed ON him sitting on his lap. I was crushed. We blushed so hard at that time i could've died. but like most boys he didnt push me off in disgust, he....waited....and I got off after like 45 seconds.

I dunno waht to do, I like him, but i dunt DX

last post of the night guys

ga`night

Night Owl. :)

@Rachel: Yes... And it's worse because ALL my friends hate him. They hate it when I mention him. One of my friends is like a mind reader... She always knows when Alex is on my mind. And I nearly get slapped when he is... >.>

Irk :P Well...he's moving soon, right? Is it going to be far away...like, is there much of a chance of you two seeing each other again soon-ish?

I won't be seeing him in a LONG time, if ever... I live in NC and he's moving back to Texas... *ponders* maybe his mom will kick him out again...

Owl!!!!! You should talk to him about it...

Scourge(Lyla) wrote: "I won't be seeing him in a LONG time, if ever... I live in NC and he's moving back to Texas... *ponders* maybe his mom will kick him out again..."

OK, so then...there's not really much of a chance of you two actually going out, right? So keep that in mind...:/

I know... Besides... He hates me. Did you read the comments for the status updates I posted?

Yeah, I saw, but the first one didn't really seem like he hated you at all and the second one was a bit confusing...like obviously he was mad but it didn't really make much sense out of context '-_-

"her/she" is my BFF Death. "family" is my juggalo group and "that fag" is my friend Skull... :\

Alex thought I was hiding it from Skull. I just haven't talked to Skull much- especially about my crushes...

I guessed 'family' and 'that fag' >.<

But like...why does he care if Skull doesn't know? That's the bit that confused me :P

Because he thought that I liked Skull as well, or that I just didn't want Skull to know about it. Alex sent Death a message telling her to talk me out of liking him...

Oh, OK. Well, you can tell him that you don't like Skull....he's kind of sounding like an ass now, though >.<
That's immature....

This is from my status that I just uploaded like 3 seconds before I found this group, lol...

"Help? The one I love is seemingly in love with one of my best friends...he doesn't know that I like him and my friend doesn't like him back but he likes her like krazy... 1) Should I tell him how I feel? 2) Should I leave it be or keep trying for him?"

Don't tell him yet for sure, if he likes her, he probably doesn't like you, so that would make for a bad situation....
I'd leave it, at least until he's over her. Or you can tell your friend so she can hint to him? :P

My friend already knows...she doesn't like him like that, but she likes him as a friend so she doesn't want to hurt him...

♥ Rachel♥ wrote: "Don't tell him yet for sure, if he likes her, he probably doesn't like you, so that would make for a bad situation....
I'd leave it, at least until he's over her. Or you can tell your friend so she..."


He's said he likes me as more than a friend...he just...likes her more...=\

42: I meant you can tell her you like him :P
43: Oh...:( Then yeah, wait a bit for him to get over her...but if he already likes you that's good ^-^

Scourge(Lyla) wrote: "Alex thought I was hiding it from Skull. I just haven't talked to Skull much- especially about my crushes..."

lol im not surprised XD oh and STOP THINKIN BOUT ALEX!!!!

I agree with snakey here :P too many status and shit about him and if he doesn't love you for you then fuck him he ain't worth your love. Try to forget him and focus on the ones who do love you. It'll be hard at first but I know you can do it

What Juggalo X said.

It makes me sad when me and michelle are hanging out and a song that reminds her of alex comes on and she sits there and frowns and then I get to thinking of how I should kill alex. XD

How far are your schools now? If there a chance he could ever go to your school?

snake (kat) tru juggalo wrote: "Scourge(Lyla) wrote: "Alex thought I was hiding it from Skull. I just haven't talked to Skull much- especially about my crushes..."

lol im not surprised XD oh and STOP THINKIN BOUT ALEX!!!!"

Juggalo X wrote: "I agree with snakey here :P too many status and shit about him and if he doesn't love you for you then fuck him he ain't worth your love. Try to forget him and focus on the ones who do love you. It..."

♥ Rachel♥ wrote: "What Juggalo X said."

snake (kat) tru juggalo wrote: "It makes me sad when me and michelle are hanging out and a song that reminds her of alex comes on and she sits there and frowns and then I get to thinking of how I should kill alex. XD"

I know y'all I try. I just decided I'd try here for some advice. *shrug*
My Crime And Punishment drawings(Snake knows what they are) are done.
Ever since I talked to Rachel earlier^ I've been better. I just really need(ed) to get used to the fact that he's gone and isn't coming back. I've been thinking about it a lot. I'm a lot more comfortable with the fact he hates me. I don't care as much any more. I just needed time.
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♥ Rachel♥ wrote: "Oh, OK. Well, you can tell him that you don't like Skull....he's kind of sounding like an ass now, though >.<
That's immature...."

He is an ass... >.>

I told you you just needed time. And skull is the biggest ass I know. blocked his number. After all I did for him he still fuckin hates me. Asswipe -_-