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Tell me your problems and I will try to give you the best advice, the other members may offer their own bit of advice but I will decide what's the best.

Discuss.

what do i do about my best friend dating a guy who hates me and makes me feel bad all the time?

don't hang out with her when he's around or is he's no good 4 ur BFF then try to convince her to dump him

That's wonderful advice. Thank you Aisha.

I don't have a strong relationship with my parents right now. I just am struggling with the fact that my dad is a nut and my mom is kind of stern. They get really annoyed at me half the time and I feel like they don't understand me. Can anyone please tell me what I can do to strengthen my relationship with them before I rebel?

sit down and tell them how you feel and if the get angy than talk to a consler at your school and maybe they could help you talk to your parents and hopefully they understand ((sorry for the spelling mistakes))

im getting made fun of because i brought a stuffed animal to my high school and i get called names but i dont want to tell my mom and dad what do i do to stop people from talking behind my back and keep bringing my stuffed animal to school Anastacia lynn withwoich ((i hope i spelled it right)) I love you bestie

It's okay Liv and It's my last name is spelled Woitowich. If they make fun of you please tell me so i can talk to them just remember you are better than them they are just jelous that you have the courage to be youself beside you have awesome friends who love you because you bring a stuffed animal to school
Love you to bestie

thanks ana and the next time that that does happen i will tell you like i did in art today

Thank you

Please tell me your honest option about this group. You are my new mod Anastascia.

This group is awesome and if it werent here then i'd STILL be fighting with my best friend. But i got good advice and it helped me talk to her and now we're friends again.

Anastacia wrote: "sit down and tell them how you feel and if the get angy than talk to a consler at your school and maybe they could help you talk to your parents and hopefully they understand ((sorry for the spelli..."

Thanks. I'll try doing that sometime.

no problem

Hey... :)
I'm a little confused actually...
In short, I've been dating this guy for about 9 months and everything was going pretty well...
Two days ago, we kissed for the first time(no that's not the problem) and after that, just out of curiosity I asked if he'd ever made out with his ex. He said he hadn't but that he's made out with some girl (about a year ago) who's name he didn't even know.
I'm open minded, he can make out with whoever, but the only thing is, he often says "you know me the best in the world/I'd never lie to you"
Technically he didn't lie, the topic hadn't ever come up..
But anyway, I said it was okay (he freaked out a lot, thinking i'd break up with him) and we're still together...
But now its weird for me.. I have a bit of a trust issue and now its kicked in... I don't want to mess things up, well because he's also a really good friend...
Everything he says or does is getting on my nerves and I just wanna die... Well, I'm not suicidal... but you know.. Generally feeling like crap... And I don't know what to do...!

Sorry my message is so long...^^

No that's fine, Safa, we are here to help you and offer bits of advice and wisdom and the best bet for you I think is to let Anastacia tell you what to do because she gives the best advice.

Heey Safa i think you should try to talk to him and get a friend to help you and explain to him what your feeling and how it bugs you that he freaked out and tell him that you still want to be with him. And just keep calm and if your still having problems messege me and i'll help you

hey Anna, Anastacia...
Hmm.. We did talk yesterday, and I ended up telling him exactly what I felt... It doesn't really bug me that he freaked out, I mean, I don't blame him, I wouldn't want it to end this way either..
But yeah, everything is okay, for now, though it probably will take me a while to go back to exactly how we were before but its okay... :)
Thank you :)

Your welcome

I know this should be about other people's problems but I have a problem I need one more answer to before I spring into action and do it.

Okay so my ex-best friend Abby has a growing crush on my close friend Lizzie's brother and the thing is he likes her back but she is 13 and he's 15. I know it sounds so much like a Pride and Prejudice moment but I am kinda worried that something will happen.

You know broken hearts and stuff like that, and Lizzie and Luke's dad isn't happy about their "friendship" but it clear that they really like each other. What can I do?

Uhm... She's just 13 and I know it makes me sound judgemental (and old) but it probably will pass... Even if they do date it will be just an experience...
Then again, one of my ex best friends dated a guy 2 years older when she was 13 and they lasted until he left to college, and they are good friends now so you probably don't need to do anything about it... Just let things happen as they should, I think...

Just a suggestion though... Do what you feel you should do..:)

A guy in my class before i moved last week kissed me and it was my first. Now my friend who likes him said that he got paid to do it. Im really sad now cuz i thought i liked him. i shouldn't like him anymore and i should let my friend have him but i still like him and my frind is going after him.

Chioma{In Pain}A guy in my class before i moved last week kissed me and it was my first. Now my friend who likes him said that he got paid to do it. Im really sad now cuz i thought i liked him. i shouldn't like him anymore and i should let my friend have him but i still like him and my frind is going after him.

If you asked your friend to tell the guy that you like her feelings for that guy to him im pretty sure he would say that he likes you and not her soo go up to that guy and ask him if he likes you back

Believe me ive been through this stuff too

Hey, I just joined the group today. My prob is I made friends with a new girl at the start of the term in September, and one of my friends was really annoyed about it, the other was fine. Now, weeks later, the one that was annoyed is ignoring me slightly and just walking off with our new friend. It has made me upset because she was so against letting her join the group, and now she just takes the new girl away and I and my other friends are left behind.

Hey a new member!!!! Awesome...welcome to Teen Girls Advice Column, I am the head mod and also so is Anastacia so you can talk to either of us if you need help since I am terrible at giving good advice, I'll let Anastacia take over and answer your question.

By the way Sarah, I have the very same problem except that Lizzie and Abbie are only my two friends I used to really talk to but now they completely ignore me now.

Anna wrote: "Hey a new member!!!! Awesome...welcome to Teen Girls Advice Column, I am the head mod and also so is Anastacia so you can talk to either of us if you need help since I am terrible at giving good ad..."

hi, and oh, no. It must be very hard for you. When I was younger and I moved schools, I made some friends, and they ignored me soon after. btw, i like giving advice too.

I hope you stay and like it here.

Thank you, I think I will. It's a great group to set up.

I thought it would be a great idea to do so I did it. Are you glad I did?

Yes, i am! :)

You can make any discussion if you wish.

i was standing up for jessica and chealse was all up in jessicas face so i stepped in and said hey why dont you leave her the fuck alone and the next thing i know is that jessica is bleeding from her lip and then all i hear her say is i want my sister so i run up to kimmy and say your sister just got punched in the face and then one of my other friends run up to me and ask me if i heard what chealse said and i said no so then she told me that chealse said i have to watch my fing back

sorry to put all this on you but i need a plan to stop me from feeling scared of going to school every morning please help me

Okay liv what i would do is stay with some friends ((like me)) and if they say ANYTHING rude to you tell me and we will deal with it together because
One person is easy to knock down
Two is hard
Three is impossible

kk

I have overportective really strict parents and when ever we get into an arguement they think they are always right and even if they are wrong they think they're right, and they dont let me speak my mind, or my part of the story, what do i do?

i say ignore them.parents are like little kids.They don't always know what they're talking about. Let them think they're right and when something goes wrong them them take the blame.

Thats a good idea, thanks!

My parents keep blaming me for stuff that isnt even my fault, what do i do?

stuff like what?

like breaking things, and stealing things

Well make parents died a couple years ago and my two abusive brothers have to take care of me and as a result of this I am suicudal. Got any advice?

Alex LOVES ROLEPLAYING AND THE BACKSTREET BOYS!!! wrote: "Well make parents died a couple years ago and my two abusive brothers have to take care of me and as a result of this I am suicudal. Got any advice?"

abusive?

Little_miss_book_freak wrote: "like breaking things, and stealing things"

are you getting in trouble for it like being grounded?

Yes and it horrible.

have any other relatives?you could stay with them or friends.

Well I just moved and so i dont have any friends. And the only relitive I know is my aunt how lives in Utah.

have you told anyone? how old are your brothers?

No. And 20 and 21.

tell your aunt.since you haven't settled in yet maybe she can take you it. what do your brothers do that's abusive?

Phyisicaly abuse me and other i have harder time telling anyone.

how come? i get they're your brothers but telling someone will be good.btw aren't you 18?