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message 1: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
Hey Bookworn, for future reference only mods are allowed to post topics, I'll let this slide though because it's a relatively good topic. If you have an idea post your idea in the right folder and we'll add it if we think it's good.


message 2: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
A moderator, the heads of the group, Rachel and I.


message 3: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
No you can comment and stuff, just don't post topics without asking. Debate all you want, just get permission before you add debates.


message 4: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
Yes. There is also a topic under the other folder called Suggestion for topics where you are meant to do this. It's a place for suggestions.


message 5: by Brielle (new)

Brielle (briebrie5) I guess i will start the debate then! Of course, I am not ok with public nudity. You can walk around naked all you want at home, but nobody wants to see all that stuff in the street! At the beach i can see people walking around in bikinis, but in public, girls and guys should at least wear a shirt or something to cover up. What i really don't like though is when i see girls wearing jean shorts so short that they are like jean UNDERWEAR! They barely cover up their butt or their panties!


message 6: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Public nudity is illegal...at least, it is here. There are indecent exposure laws regulating that.

In my opinion, if you want to walk around in a bikini, go ahead: people will probably think worse of you for it, but that's your decision. Just not tiny bikinis...like, most of the butt and boobs must be covered :P


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments I don't really have a stand on this. I mean yeah if your wearing a thong bikini you should be wearing a coverup but other then that, I don't really care if your walking down the street looking like a slut, just as long as I don't get a nice view of your bum.


message 8: by Brielle (new)

Brielle (briebrie5) I guess so!


message 9: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Yeah, agreed.


message 10: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
A girl can actually be topless in public in Central Park in New York, I think? Just found that out not too long ago.

Totally true, Aleph. I suppose anyone is entitled to dress how they wish, but they will face consequences. I know I sometimes take risks wearing what I wear (nothing skimpy, but just against the norm) and I have attracted unwanted attention.

I suppose this would be a good place to talk about school and dress codes. A dress code topic on its own would be lovely, but .. I notice that a lot of girls in my school wear those "denim underwear" or booty shorts and feathers and fake tans .. and they don't get stopped for it. But I was stopped once because my black jeans were "too rugged" and for wearing a long flowing black jacket. Yeah, because I'm totally someone to carry around weapons -_-


message 11: by Brielle (new)

Brielle (briebrie5) Wow that's crazy! They need 2 put a certain length restriction on shorts at schools cuz soon schools will be full of girls looking like sluts!


message 12: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
And they allow that, but they don't like tank tops. One of our administrators (an older fat man) called it "seductive" -_- Creepy, no?

Oh no, I'm showing my shoulders .. what a scandal! It's like back in the day (1800s?) when showing your ankles and/or knees was such a bad thing. If only they could see us now ..


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments I think you can go topless in Austin too, but I know that you can breatfeed in public in Austin.


message 14: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Tenebris In Lux wrote: "And they allow that, but they don't like tank tops. One of our administrators (an older fat man) called it "seductive" -_- Creepy, no?"

...My grandpa was giving me a speech about proper dress the other day and he said something like this: "I know you're overflowing with hormones right now, and I know a woman's role is to seduce, but that doesn't mean you have to seduce everybody 24/7!!!" '-_-


message 15: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
.. Wow o_o


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments That's great!:P


message 17: by Brielle (new)

Brielle (briebrie5) Lol thats an awkward conversation rachel! O and i know you can breastfeed publically in certain US cities( i've heard of a couple foreign women doing it since they really care if people see their stuff!), but I've never heard of people being able to go topless. You must be crazy if you are a woman and suddenly feel like taking of your shirt. Take that to a strip club please!


message 18: by Brielle (new)

Brielle (briebrie5) *don't really care


message 19: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
It was '-_-

Oh yeah, I've seen public breastfeeding around here...and toplessness in France (on a beach) actually....
Do you guys think it's alright for a girl to have her top off at a beach?


message 20: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
I see no problem with it


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments Hey, I wish I was a guy so that I could do that! I don't get why guys don't take advantage of that all the time!


message 22: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
Why are womens' nipples seen as obscene, anyway?


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments Because they turn guys on.


message 24: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
And what about shirtless guys? Surely that could be a turn on, no?


message 25: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
I never understood that...and I'm bi '-_-

I'd feel too awkward doing it but I guess there's not really a problem with others doing it :P


message 26: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
I'm bi too.

Is it because the breasts are overly fetishized? Or because they are used for breast feeding? Or because the parts are different than a male?

I've seen guys jogging and girls jogging with sports bras. Imagine no bras .. oy.


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments I've seen my brothers without a shirt, it makes it very akward to see a man without a shirt.


message 28: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
Yeah. Especially hairy guys >_<


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments Or guys with manboobs


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments Water parks are the worst! Almost every guy isn't wearing a shirt, and lots of them are fat and hairy old men.


message 31: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
Ehhhh .. forgot about flabby dudes *shudder*

Or topless women that are accepted to be topless because she's a weight lifter and no longer has real breasts .. ._.


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments EWWWW!I hate body builders!


message 33: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
If I could unsee anything .. then that would be it ..


message 34: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Tenebris In Lux wrote: "I'm bi too.

Is it because the breasts are overly fetishized? Or because they are used for breast feeding? Or because the parts are different than a male?

I've seen guys jogging and girls jogg..."


Hurrah!, probably overly fetishized tbh :P, and lol yeah...although for some women I don't think it would be that bad, but if they're bigger...eep.

Celine wrote: "Water parks are the worst! Almost every guy isn't wearing a shirt, and lots of them are fat and hairy old men."

I know right??!! Eww T_T

Tenebris In Lux wrote: "Or topless women that are accepted to be topless because she's a weight lifter and no longer has real breasts .. ._."

Body builders are a bit scary '-_-


message 35: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
...I don't know whether to laugh or shudder... Anyways lol.


message 36: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
Hehe .. moving on ..


message 37: by Cody, Ninja (new)

Cody (rolinor) | 905 comments Mod
Yeah, a woman with her top off... I'm not sure... Now it seems wrong, but that's due to our society, there are many societies that did (and do) not think anything of breasts...


message 38: by Anony-miss (last edited Sep 03, 2011 10:38PM) (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
That's true.


message 39: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
True that....


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments AMEN BROTHER!


message 41: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
Breasts have been over-fetishized over the years. Society tells us that womens' nipples are obscene ..


message 42: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Aleph - Is there really a difference between the 'seductive' and the 'hippy' law-wise? How would you enforce what the spirit of the underdressedness is? :P


message 43: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Oh, alright. Yeah, most people are decent enough to be proper in public....

What do you guys think of nudist colonies?


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments They can do whatever they want, but I aint going there. Though I do think it's great that they are that comfortable with their bodies, I ain't with my own.


message 45: by ♥ Rachel♥, Hey, whoa, I'm a mod! (last edited Sep 09, 2011 08:59PM) (new)

♥ Rachel♥   (i_got_a_jar_of_dirt) | 767 comments Mod
Agree...one thing to add though: I'm not that comfortable with their bodies either '-_-


Beautiful Cheese (Celine) (zeelazybum) | 131 comments Oh I'm not either.


message 47: by anjali (new)

anjali Nina wrote: "Would you be ok with people walking up and down the street in a bikini or something, because it is legal, you know? What would you consider appropriate, what should and shouldn't be illegal? What a..."

Um, if I was walking with my sisters across the street, I wouldn't want to see some naked lady there too. Thats just gross.

Nudity...ew.


message 48: by John (new)

John Egbert (heirofbreath) | 492 comments The human body is nothing to be ashamed of, but when I see those low riders I have a strange urge to yell at the people "IF I SEE ANY BUTTS I AM KICKING THEM!"


message 49: by Anony-miss (new)

Anony-miss a-non-y-miss | 399 comments Mod
hehehe


message 50: by anjali (new)

anjali Lololololol :P

Of course, we shouldn't be ashamed of our body, but kids or ME dont wanna see any butts or boobs either.


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