One Of Us discussion

Most ENFJ's Will Commonly Display The Following Strengths and Weaknesses:

S T R E N G T H S

-Excellent Verbal Communication Skills: they understand and care about people, and have a special talent for bringing out the best in others.
-Good At Deciphering The Thoughts And Motives Of Others.
-Driven To Meet The Needs Of Others: they gain personal satisfaction from making things happen for others, and are known to be focussed on other's needs.
-Warmly Affectionate And Affirming: main interest is giving love, support and a good time to people.
-Honour Commitments: the ENFJ is after lifelong relationships.


W E A K N E S S E S

-Tendency To Be Smothering And Over-Protective: there is a time when ENFJ's might just care and concern for people a bit too much.
-Can Be Controlling and/or Manipulative: exceptional social abilities allow them to get under people's skins, and draw out the reaction they are seeking.
-Critical Of Opinions And Attitudes That Don't Match With Their Own: it's important to keep an open mind.
-Overly Sensitive To Conflict; They Will Avoid It.
-Blame Themselves When Things Go Wrong.
-Sharply Defined Value Systems: can make them unbending in some areas.
-Can Have Difficulty With Social Assessments: unable to assess whether something is "Right" or "Wrong" in social situations, outside of what their social circle expects.


Information comes from a variety of websites, and more will (eventually) be added.

*Results May Vary? :P

https://www.idrlabs.com/enfj.php

About ENFJs
Engaging and compelling communicators
Strongly linked to the Narcissistic personality
Somewhat linked to the Histrionic and Avoidant personalities
More common in women than in men
Repress their Introverted Thinking function, meaning they may be tempted to exaggerate the truth for effect
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Narcissistic personality disorder
Subtypes
Millon's subtypes
Subtype
Features
Unprincipled narcissist Deficient conscience; unscrupulous, amoral, disloyal, fraudulent, deceptive, arrogant, exploitive; a con artist and charlatan; dominating, contemptuous, vindictive.

Amorous narcissist Sexually seductive, enticing, beguiling, tantalizing; glib and clever; disinclined to real intimacy; indulges hedonistic desires; bewitches and inveigles others; pathological lying and swindling. Tends to have many affairs, often with exotic partners.

Compensatory narcissist Seeks to counteract or cancel out deep feelings of inferiority and lack of self-esteem; offsets deficits by creating illusions of being superior, exceptional, admirable, noteworthy; self-worth results from self-enhancement.

Elitist narcissist Feels privileged and empowered by virtue of special childhood status and pseudo-achievements; entitled façade bears little relation to reality; seeks favored and good life; is upwardly mobile; cultivates special status and advantages by association.

Normal narcissist Least severe and most interpersonally concerned and empathetic, still entitled and deficient in reciprocity; bold in environments, self-confident, competitive, seeks high targets, feels unique; talent in leadership positions; expecting recognition from others.