♥Teen Romance♥ discussion

What does a guy do (both in books and in real life) that completely turns you off?

There was one guy in my class that used to pull his pants up really really high and walk weirdly around the school, talking in a low voice going round to girls and saying "hey babe".
Girls are way more mature than guys that's for sure! :D LOL :)

Jordyn{readingmonster}♥ Zombielicious♥ wrote: "Ummmm....I hate when guys "adjust " themselves in public. Especially when they make a big scene about it. And when they wear their pants low so you can see their boxers >< I just wanna pants them!"

LOL!
They think they're cool or something. ;)

one word that puts me off: CHAVS

When guys act like a jerk, oh and no one wants to know what color your underwear is, thank you very much!

When they're immature and say things that they think are cool. And when they make fun of you because of the way you look. Or when you have to be the one to say something first so he'll even notice you. *rolls eyes* The first thing annoys me the most though. CANNOT STAND immature guys! xD

Alice♥Ouch. Some kind of red arrow hit me. wrote: "Jordyn{readingmonster}♥ Zombielicious♥ wrote: "Ummmm....I hate when guys "adjust " themselves in public. Especially when they make a big scene about it. And when they wear their pants low so you ca..."

haha!!

MJ wrote: "When they're immature and say things that they think are cool. And when they make fun of you because of the way you look. Or when you have to be the one to say something first so he'll even notice..."

ikr

When they try to flirt with you and every other girl in school or that they know and they end up not liking you...

Oh, and when he only pays attention to the girls who are considered "hot" or "popular" and won't even glance at you. It happens nearly everyday. And it's really annoying for EVERYONE.

I hate it when they start picking on you, despite you not doing anything wrong being thin, smart, sporty, blah blah, and yet they still do it.

Daphne wrote: "I hate it when they start picking on you, despite you not doing anything wrong being thin, smart, sporty, blah blah, and yet they still do it."

I know, right?!

Alice♥ Pardon me, but you've obviously mistaken wrote: "Daphne wrote: "I hate it when they start picking on you, despite you not doing anything wrong being thin, smart, sporty, blah blah, and yet they still do it."

I know, right?!"

Plus, one of the guys also happens to a crush (ex-crush now, since he picks on you.) :P

Angela wrote: "Here is a list:
*When they show their boxers (really, knowbody want to see that)
*When they say things that only they laugh at
*When they call you by your last name (you know who you are, the on..."

True. On all of the above. Except, the fourth one. Usually they say something incredibly inappropriate and it makes me think they look stupid. xD

Guys who sag
Guys who are desperate
Guys who are idiots
Guys who are immature
Guys who are mean

A guy who tells me he loves me after a week.

A guy who constantly lies when you just saw him doing what he's lying about.

A guy who uses his 'package' to cover up his little man complex. It's really stupid becuase the think it actually works.

A guy who always claims that he's changed, and he's not the same anymore. If that was true you wouldn't have to say anything to prove it. The truth is in your actions.

A guy who puts up a front. Don't walk around one day saying you like this person to one set of people, and the next day walk around calling her out her name saying ya'll don't talk or go together.

A guy who thinks the fact that he knows how to have sex makes him a man. It doesn't.

A guy who can't respect himself enough not to show his boxers to the world.

A guy who isn't mature enough to take critism, advice, or instructions. There's no growth in that.

A guy who doesn't know when to be serious, and every single thing is a dirty joke.

Ok this list can go on for awhile so I'll just stop now (:

I really don't care frankly, I guess it's just when a guy gets on too fast and tries too hard

Angela wrote: "Valencia wrote: "A guy who tells me he loves me after a week.

A guy who constantly lies when you just saw him doing what he's lying about.

A guy who uses his 'package' to cover up his little man ..."

Lol good to know I'm not alone!!!

I hate when guys:
- stink! Please, take a shower!!
- show their underwear.
- walk around saying "Hey, babe!" to every single girl.
- think that they are the best in the hood xD
- pretend to be who they're not because they don't have the courage to be themselves in public.
- say that real men don't cry. That's not true. A real man is not afraid to show his feelings.
- support other guys that hit on women.
- are always in the side of the guys, no matter what the guy has done. Don't you have brains to think? This is not some guys versus girls fight!!
- say that a woman's place is in the kitchen. Oh Yeah? I tell you, your place is in the graveyard!!

When all he wants in a relationship is to get intimate.

It's actually a fact that women mature fast than men :) I think that's why older guys are always so much more attractive. You're just looking for someone at your maturity :P

{jordyn}♥ Zombielicious♥ wrote: "Ummmm....I hate when guys "adjust " themselves in public. Especially when they make a big scene about it. And when they wear their pants low so you can see their boxers >< I just wanna pants them!"

I wonder if they realize when they sag it actually originated in prison meaning that they're "available"

I don't mind sagging :P.
I just don't want to see your whole butt.

I don't particularly like it, but I don't hate it. Just kind of whatever, as long as their pants are sitting right underneath their whole butt like you said. That grosses me out.

Although some guys do get some cool boxer designs. Not like I want to see it, but if you're going to sag, get creative with the boxers you wear!

lol i hate guys that are sloppy eaters

Right? My ex used to literally throw food across the table. Nasty with a capital N!

Totally!! At least make it somewhat interesting to look at.

And yes! That is so gross, such a turn off.

Ali wrote: "Although some guys do get some cool boxer designs. Not like I want to see it, but if you're going to sag, get creative with the boxers you wear!"

I agree

wow i just read throw all of theas and on i see why my girlfriend broke up with me

Nice XD

Wayne wrote: "wow i just read throw all of theas and on i see why my girlfriend broke up with me"

Why do you do a lot of this stuff? I guess we all learn from experience. :)

A guy who doesn't respect a girl. that is simply the turn off.

Beatrice wrote: "A guy who doesn't respect a girl. that is simply the turn off."

I couldn't agree more.

Besides that, there's the gross eating habits, the unbearable smell and zero grey matter.
I'm beginning to believe that perfect guys exist only in books!

Lame jokes !!!!!! Just hate that
2) I- m- the - guy- I- know - better sought of ego they are built up with lol ..... That's just super pathetic
3) uber - possesiveness ..... It's almost like invisible leash ( Specially bf's)
4) just hate stinkies

Snigdha wrote: "Beatrice wrote: "A guy who doesn't respect a girl. that is simply the turn off."

I couldn't agree more.

Besides that, there's the gross eating habits, the unbearable smell and zero grey matter.
I..."
I bet that' s true

Ela *who loves Supernatural's Dean Winchester!!!* wrote: "Wayne wrote: "wow i just read throw all of theas and on i see why my girlfriend broke up with me"

Why do you do a lot of this stuff? I guess we all learn from experience. :)"

ouch that herts

Guys who show off too much, who keeps talking about himself, those who act like jerks!

Wayne wrote: "Ela *who loves Supernatural's Dean Winchester!!!* wrote: "Wayne wrote: "wow i just read throw all of theas and on i see why my girlfriend broke up with me"

Why do you do a lot of this stuff? I gue..."

sorry i didn't mean it to
sorry if i offended you

I hate guys who show an interest in you, then ask you if you want to have sex.
No thank you!

Kenzie wrote: "Sagging OMG!!! it's not cute! three words...

GET A BELT"

Justin Bieber needs a belt:)))

Beatrice wrote: "Kenzie wrote: "Sagging OMG!!! it's not cute! three words...

GET A BELT"

Justin Bieber needs a belt:)))"
NLOL I LUV JUSTIN BIEBER!!!

Guyz show to much PDA!!!!

besides the typical rude and vulgar behavior that turns every girl off, the main thing that's a turn off to me is when a guy just plain ol' tries too hard. I appreciate a good flirt and the brave guy who has the guts to just ask a girl out or for her phone number but when I come across that guy who just reeks of desperation and is putting in way too much effort to get my attention, red flags start to fly and I'm immediately repelled away.

Leah wrote: "besides the typical rude and vulgar behavior that turns every girl off, the main thing that's a turn off to me is when a guy just plain ol' tries too hard. I appreciate a good flirt and the brave g..."

agreed

immature guys
ones that show their boxers
liars
dirty jokers
the ones that flirt with just about any girl
the pushy ones
the ones that try too hard and make everything awkward

When a guy pretends to know more than you or talks down/ to you like you're stupid

One that openly ogles girls when your with them.

Tera wrote: "One that openly ogles girls when your with them."
Yea! That buggs me too

Too hairy, ugly, stupid, annoying, mean, and sexual guys are the WORST.

I don't like boys in my class that are nice one moment and annoying the next and ones that are overly arrogant (even when they have nothing to be arrogant about!)