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Hey guys! Do you think its bad to like someone younger than you? For example if your fifteen and their fourteen?
Madeline wrote: "Hey guys! Do you think its bad to like someone younger than you? For example if your fifteen and their fourteen?"If you like the guy, then why not? There's no wrong or right here, and besides, age is just a number ;)
I know. But another thing is he lives in a different country.... ):
Theres this guy that is two years older than me that I like. He kept flirting with me (tickling me, havng pillow fight with me, sitting so that our arms are touching or somethin all the time). But when he came over again, right out of the blue, one of my friends said: "We all know you like Ella, you were flirting with her yesterday." He didn't have any comment on that. Do you think he likes me?
Tal :3 wrote: "Madeline wrote: "Hey guys! Do you think its bad to like someone younger than you? For example if your fifteen and their fourteen?"If you like the guy, then why not? There's no wrong or right here..."
agreed!
Ella wrote: "Theres this guy that is two years older than me that I like. He kept flirting with me (tickling me, havng pillow fight with me, sitting so that our arms are touching or somethin all the time). But ..."Well the only way to find out is to ask. Honestly, you may really regret it if you don't :)
Madeline wrote: "Hey guys! Do you think its bad to like someone younger than you? For example if your fifteen and their fourteen?"If it's only a one year difference in age then it's no big deal, you're practically the same age anyway :)
Leah your prob right. Its just the whole he lives in a different country thing that bothers me. Lol. (;
A creepy guy who is 3 years older than me likes me and won't stop being um... kinda weird. He smacked my butt the other day and won't quit touching me and he asks me weird questions about the guy I like..... It drives me crazy. HOW DO I GET HIM TO STOP????? (without being mean)
Madeline wrote: "Leah your prob right. Its just the whole he lives in a different country thing that bothers me. Lol. (;"well then you have to decide whether or not you can handle a long distance relationship. Be mindfull that while all relationships take effort to make them work, long distance ones take double the effort to work out so you have to figure out if you are ready to take on that challenge.
Ella wrote: "A creepy guy who is 3 years older than me likes me and won't stop being um... kinda weird. He smacked my butt the other day and won't quit touching me and he asks me weird questions about the guy I..."just tell him that the touching and asking of personal questions is making you uncomfortable and that you like him to stop. It won't come off as mean as long as your tone isn't mean. Of course if he continues with the behavior after you speak with him the first time then you may need to be stern with him to get your point across.
If it is only a year difference then it really isn't a big deal. I dated a guy that was 14 when I was 15, it really wasn't all that weird. But I do still believe that at certain ages, age most definitely does matter. You can't tell me it is okay for a 16 year old to date someone that is like 10 years older than them? But when you are older, I don't think age is a problem. This is just how I feel.
I most definitely agree with Leah. Just try not to use a mean tone of voice, and if he doesn't quit then you have no choice but to be tough with him. You most definitely should not have to put up with anything like that that makes you uncomfortable.
Omg the guy I went to Homecoming with in October, decides to text me last night ask me out. He also said he's been liking me since the dance. He waits till NOW when I have moved an hour away.
Madeline wrote: "Omg the guy I went to Homecoming with in October, decides to text me last night ask me out. He also said he's been liking me since the dance. He waits till NOW when I have moved an hour away."Aw that's actually quite sad :[
But if you like him enough, he's worth it in my opinion :D
Madeline wrote: "Omg the guy I went to Homecoming with in October, decides to text me last night ask me out. He also said he's been liking me since the dance. He waits till NOW when I have moved an hour away."An hour's distance isn't too bad if either of you drive. He might have been too nervous to tell you how he felt about you for months and just now worked up the courage to finally confess his feelings for you. Of course if you're really curious about why he waited until now you can always just ask him.
Madeline wrote: "Hey guys! Do you think its bad to like someone younger than you? For example if your fifteen and their fourteen?"I have the same problem...
Thanks guys! Yall have been a great help. (: We are talking a lot more, and might go on a date soon. (:
Hey guys! well I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 5 months now, and i honestly think that he believes everything is great and going strong. But I'm not sure if i want to stay with him just because idk if we'll even end up together so i kind of don't want to waste my time. I still kinda like him, but i also want to see my options. What should i do?
thanks! although i am kinda scared to talk to him about it
did you ever want to get back with him after?
And definitely don't feel like you should stay with him because he still likes you if you don't feel the same way any more. Hope everything works out okay for you :)
3 boys like me one of Wich I like they are all my friends!!!!!
Caitlin wrote: "3 boys like me one of Wich I like they are all my friends!!!!!"Well damn. Lucky you, that's all I can say haha.
Only even consider dating any of them if you really, honestly like one of them a lot :)
Ella wrote: "A creepy guy who is 3 years older than me likes me and won't stop being um... kinda weird. He smacked my butt the other day and won't quit touching me and he asks me weird questions about the guy I..."Tell him first off he needs to start respecting you if he wants anything to go further and then explain either your not ready to date or your just looking for friendships at this point in your life.
Caitlin wrote: "3 boys like me one of Wich I like they are all my friends!!!!!"Just keep it friendly because you don't want them to play you if they are friends with one another. Besides, the one that truly likes you will wait around for you.
Amelia wrote: "Lisbeth wrote: "Hey guys! well I've been going out with my current boyfriend for about 5 months now, and i honestly think that he believes everything is great and going strong. But I'm not sure if ..."Good advice from Amelia!
Ok how do you know if a guy likes you or LIKES you! Me and my friend are both confused? 0_o
Toughy! But I think it all goes back to those elementary school days where if a boy likes u he teases u. I think if a boy teases u (playfully/respectfully), tries to hang with you either at lunch time, asks to go to the movies/mall, etc, it's a good sign. A guy is going to try his hardest to be around u, he might not tell you but he's going to try to show you.
Elizabeth wrote: "Ok how do you know if a guy likes you or LIKES you! Me and my friend are both confused? 0_o"I feel like this is the greatest mystery to all womankind lol honestly in my opinion if a guy can't just come right out and tell you he has feelings for you then he's not worth the time and effort. Any guy that makes you have to follow clues and leads like you're solving some murder mystery is just a coward in my eyes who can't express his feelings.
Ok so I need some major advice (or at least some perspective). I've really, really liked this guy for about 2 years and he doesn't know it yet. However, almost all our friends know. Some tell me to just tell him while others tell me to forget about him and move on. Reasons for this are: 1-he first liked a friend of mine and would kinda ask me about her, 2-I'm always the one starting the conversations between us and he hardly ever does, 3- he sometimes would call me "fwend" and supposedly that a sure "friendzone" sign and lastly, he has no "ambition" (he wants to have his music produced and he's actually working on it with a M.P. in SD). He's the first guy I've really felt this strong and for this long for. My other crushes have usually lasted like a couple of months or weeks, this has been 2 years! So what do you ladies think, should I tell him my feelings, wait till later or not even tell him and just move on?
Alegna wrote: "Ok so I need some major advice (or at least some perspective). I've really, really liked this guy for about 2 years and he doesn't know it yet. However, almost all our friends know. Some tell me to..."this sounds so similar to what I went through last semester at school it's scary! lol to seriously answer your question though, I think you should tell him how you feel but not with the intentions of getting together with him. From the way you have described this guy he doesn't seem like the ideal guy for you and he may not even see you in a girlfriend type of way to begin with. You should still tell him how you feel though for your own peace of mind and as closure. By confessing your feelings you're alleviating yourself of any "what if" guilt that you maybe carrying and that will allow you to move on to a much better guy without any baggage.
Thanks for the advice Leah and Tera!! =)
Leah wrote: "Alegna wrote: "Ok so I need some major advice (or at least some perspective). I've really, really liked this guy for about 2 years and he doesn't know it yet. However, almost all our friends know. ..."Huh, only 2 ppl have told me this and I never really did tell him then. Hearing this again about "closure" sounds just right for now. I would like to be in a relationship with him but it doesn't seem like the right time and yeah, he doesn't seem to see me that way. I really would like this off of my chest and move on without any "what if" guilts. Thanks Leah, appreciate it :) btw- one of those 2 ppl happens to have your name as a form of nickname (Alya=Lya=leah) hahaha coincidence?
Alegna wrote: "Leah wrote: "Alegna wrote: "Ok so I need some major advice (or at least some perspective). I've really, really liked this guy for about 2 years and he doesn't know it yet. However, almost all our f..."lol could be a sign :)
@Algena Great advice from Leah :) I think you best option is just to tell him how you feel like she said. Because then if he doesn't feel the same way you will know and can move on without the what if's. Honestly, you put it perfectly Leah.
4-0 then. I've been thinking it over and yes, I will tell him next time I see him. I can't keep it to myself anymore and I deserve better than this. Thanks Jammie and Leah :)
Alegna wrote: "4-0 then. I've been thinking it over and yes, I will tell him next time I see him. I can't keep it to myself anymore and I deserve better than this. Thanks Jammie and Leah :)"You're welcome, let us know how it goes! :)
Jammie wrote: "@Algena Great advice from Leah :) I think you best option is just to tell him how you feel like she said. Because then if he doesn't feel the same way you will know and can move on without the wha..."
No problem :) I only backed up Leah's advice. But yes, good luck :) And let us know how it goes.
i fall in love with a guy in my dreams DX
Astrid wrote: "I am in love with William Herondale from TID. And it hurts to know he's not alive. It completely sucks, being in love with a fictional character. :("I completely understand the feeling!!!!
I have a problem. There's this guy i used to date, but then we broke up, and then after a year we got together again. We had always been friends, we are in the same group of friends, we know each other pretty well.But, well i have another friend, he's always been very supportive, and he's normal -BE CAREFUL THIS IS NOT A LOVE TRIANGLE!!! -i mean that the guy i used to date is kinf of creepy, but in good creepy way, no creepy creepy.
Anyways, my normal friend has some problems with the creepy one, and since we last broke up, the normal and I would always stick together. Walk to class together, go to buy food together, go to the lockers together, he's like... my best friend, just imagine your best girl friend, and then you have him but male version.
The thing is he's been encouraging me to forget and get over the creepy one, which is okay because it's sort of what i want too, but i feel like we are like pushing him apart from us, we always make jokes about him, and although he says nothing about him, i know it bothers him, but i just can't seem to stop!
I'm just going to say that my relationship with this guy was very complicated, it affected my grades even -and i'm not the low-grades-because-of-a-guy type of girl -so i decided to get away from that troubled situation. But i don't know if i'm doing this the right way.
Quite an unusual problem huh??
Any advice can help, really, it's a comlicated situation that i can't get out of my head!
I think the first thing you need to do is take a hard look at what it is you really want. If you are unhappy being with this "creepy guy" then move on but if you are happy then why wouldn't you stay. From what you have written it seems you are already leaning toward splitting with this guy, especially if you are constantly making jokes at his expense.
Who can you be yourself around? That's a pretty important question to ask. But I would tell the ... uh... creepy one how you really feel if the only reason you are continuing whatever you are continuing is out of, I don't now, pressure or guilt. I'm not saying you are, and I'm sorry you are in this position to begin with, but do what YOU feel is right, not by what others are telling you. :)
I have a REALLY big problem at school. I have a pretty good friend at school who I believe is SOOOOOOO cute/hot. We have one class together, where I am the only girl, and he always sits next to me, and will help me if i need help in this class. He also understands me really well, like we've both been through being unpopular and picked on, and he believes in me when not every does, so we are very close. I'm convinced he likes me. But this is where the problem is. Should I ask him out? I really want to, but there are a few things stopping me. 1. If he doesn't feel the same way about me, our friendship could end (Although his not superficial, so I dont think he would do that) and two, Im in year eleven, so if i ask him and he does say no, even if he's cool with it, they will probably make fun of me for all eternity. What should I do? I can't stop thinking about him!!!
Jessica wrote: "I have a REALLY big problem at school. I have a pretty good friend at school who I believe is SOOOOOOO cute/hot. We have one class together, where I am the only girl, and he always sits next to me..." Just tell him how you feel when your alone with him and neither of you are in any rush to be somewhere else. (: sometimes you just have to take a chance. you can do it! >xD
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