“Whether pleasant or dismal, the past is always a safe territory, if only because it is already experienced, and the species' capacity to revert, to run backward -especially in its thoughts or dreams, since there we are safe as well - is extremely strong in all of us, quite irrespective of the reality we are facing. Yet this machinery has been built into us, not for cherishing or grasping the past (in the end, we don't do either), but more for delaying the arrival of the present - for, in other words, slowing down a bit the passage of time.”
― On Grief and Reason: Essays
― On Grief and Reason: Essays
“People accuse me of falling in love easily. It just means that I'm able to see the beauty in most of the people who cross paths with me and I appreciate it for what it is and also for what it isn't. Love is imperfect. Falling for someone's flaws is just as necessary as falling for their strengths. And people like myself, who fall into love easily, are sometimes the loneliest souls around at the end of the day.”
―
―
“I already love in you your beauty, but I am only beginning to love in you that which is eternal and ever precious – your heart, your soul. Beauty one could get to know and fall in love with in one hour and cease to love it as speedily; but the soul one must learn to know. Believe me, nothing on earth is given without labour, even love, the most beautiful and natural of feelings,But the more difficult the labour and hardship, the higher the reward,”
Count Leo Tolstoi to Valeria Arsenev, his fiance. November 2, 1856”
―
Count Leo Tolstoi to Valeria Arsenev, his fiance. November 2, 1856”
―
“It's a curse, you know, to be able to look higher than you're allowed to reach.”
― We the Living
― We the Living
Pornwan’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Pornwan’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
More friends…
Polls voted on by Pornwan
Lists liked by Pornwan













