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“It’s very difficult to give up on things we can’t control. And that’s what a divorce represents. It represents the ultimate loss of control, a marriage and a mate we can’t control. And if we give up on the mate and the marriage, by acknowledging that loss, we can free ourselves of the anger and resentment - and that will liberate our children. Finally, children are not affected by our grief and mourning. They are affected by our inability to grieve and mourn.”
― Daniel Gottlieb, Voices in the Family: A Therapist Talks About Listening, Openness, and Healing

“The night’s electric excess takes their breath. The spread of life. The way the planet proclaims to the abyss: there is something and someone here.”
― Samantha Harvey, Orbital

“A sense of gratitude so overwhelming that there’d be nothing they could do with or about it, no word or thought that could be its equal, so for a moment they’d close their eyes. The earth would still be there on the inside of the eyelids,”
― Samantha Harvey, Orbital

“If we feel guilty about some aspect of our sexuality, I hope we can understand where that's coming from within ourselves and take responsibility for it. But feeling guilty is not taking responsibility; that comes with understanding the true origins of our guilt. And when that happens, it makes sexuality less burdensome for our children. It may not heal the scars and might not undo the damage, but it will certainly open some doors in their lives.”
― Daniel Gottlieb, Voices in the Family: A Therapist Talks About Listening, Openness, and Healing