“The ethos of redemption is realied in self-mastery, by means of temperance, that is, continence of desires.”
― Blessed Are the Pure of Heart
― Blessed Are the Pure of Heart
“The person—especially a woman—may be disillusioned by the fact that over time a man’s affection turns out to be only, so to speak, a cover for desire or even for an explicit will to use. Both a woman and a man may be disillusioned by the fact that the values attributed to the beloved person turn out to be fiction. Because of the dissonance between the ideal and the reality, affective love is sometimes not only extinguished but even transformed into affective hatred.”
― Love and Responsibility
― Love and Responsibility
“Take away from love the fullness of self surrender, the completeness of personal commitment, and what remains will be a total denial and negation of it.”
― Love and Responsibility
― Love and Responsibility
“Love consists of a commitment which limits one's freedom - it is a giving of the self, and to give oneself means just that: to limit one's freedom on behalf of another.”
― Love and Responsibility
― Love and Responsibility
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