Shirley

“But you do it anyway, even if you think you’ll never be as good as he was?” I ask Ilídio. He shrugs and takes a slug of his beer. “Most of us will never be the best at anything we do. It isn’t a reason not to do it.”
― Sophie Cousens, Just Haven't Met You Yet

“People want to believe they know other people. Parents want to believe they know their kids. Wives want to believe they know their husbands.”
― Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

“The trick is to find that one person who can give it back as good as they can take it.”
― Sally Thorne, The Hating Game

“I have never been a nag. I have always been rather proud of my un-nagginess. So it pisses me off, that Nick is forcing me to nag. I am willing to live with a certain amount of sloppiness, of laziness, of the lackadaisical life. I realize I am more type A than Nick, and I try not to inflict my neat-freaky, to-do-list nature on him. Nick is not the kind of guy who is going to think to vacuum or clean out the fridge. He truly doesn't see that kind of stuff. Fine. Really. But I do like a certain standard of living - I think it's fair to say the garbage shouldn't literally overflow, the plates shouldn't sit in the sink for a week with smears of bean burrito dried on them. That is just being a good grown-up roommate. And Nick's doing anything anymore, so I nag, and it pisses me off: You are turning me into what I never have been and never wanted to be, a nag because you are not living up to your end of a very basic compact. Don't do that, It's not ok to do.”
― Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl