Pam DePaul

“Without you in my arms, I feel an emptiness in my soul. I find myself searching the crowds for your face - I know it's an impossibility, but I cannot help myself.”
― Nicholas Sparks, Message in a Bottle

“The shame that our Inner Child internalizes—she writes about it as if it’s all about your individual experiences and interpersonal interactions. All based on what our parents did or didn’t do to us, with no real accounting for the systemic problems entrenched in society—no real accounting of anti-Blackness or anti-queerness—and not enough concern for community healing. It feels like a very individualistic kind of self-help.” What I didn’t say was that I still feared therapy in general might have the same limitations.”
― Hari Ziyad, Black Boy Out of Time