“When is comes to experiences of racism and oppression, even when you receive love and support you can still develop PTSD or CPTSD, because feeling othered every day can rob you of your sense of safety in the world.”
― The Pain We Carry: Healing from Complex PTSD for People of Color
― The Pain We Carry: Healing from Complex PTSD for People of Color
“The white people I met were well-meaning, well-read liberal folks who happened to know all the ins and outs of racism and colonialism, but somehow positioned these problems outside of themselves rather than taking ownership of them. They did not understand themselves to be part of the problem, and they did not see themselves as benefitting from these systems of oppression. Many saw themselves as strictly allies.”
― For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color
― For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color
“A non-white girl’s self-love is revolutionary and anyone trying to water it down needs to back right off.”
― For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color
― For Brown Girls with Sharp Edges and Tender Hearts: A Love Letter to Women of Color
“Gender is not what people look like to other people; it is what we know ourselves to be. No one else should be able to tell you who you are; that’s for you to decide.”
― Beyond the Gender Binary
― Beyond the Gender Binary
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