Beth

“Scientists have discovered, it's true, that employing positive illusions will help you achieve your goals. But I have slowly come to believe that far better things await outside of the tunnel vision of your goals.”
― Lulu Miller, Why Fish Don’t Exist: A Story of Loss, Love, and the Hidden Order of Life

“Wanting positive experience is a negative experience; accepting negative experience is a
positive experience.”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive approach to Living a Good Life

“We can be truly successful only at something we’re willing to fail at. If we’re unwilling to fail, then we’re unwilling to succeed.”
― Mark Manson, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life

“[I]t is our life’s work to mistrust our measures. Especially those about moral and mental standing. To remember that behind every ruler there is a ruler. To remember that a category is at best a proxy; at worst, a shackle.”
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― Lulu Miller, Why Fish Don’t Exist: A Story of Loss, Love, and the Hidden Order of Life