“Holding on to conditional beliefs about how people should behave toward you because of all you do for them will only set you up to feel disappointment, anger, and resentment to people in particular as well as disillusionment about others in general”
― The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome
― The Disease to Please: Curing the People-Pleasing Syndrome
“The iron rule of nature is: you get what you reward for. If you want ants to come, you put sugar on the floor.”
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“I decided that my mind, body, and spirit had worked together to craft the best they could with limited resources, and to see myself as a helpless victim of chronic “mental illness” was merely adding insult to injury.”
― Learning from the Voices in My Head
― Learning from the Voices in My Head
“And, fundamentally, diagnoses can deflect attention away from underlying social and emotional problems, wherein branding a scientific name on someone’s distress is never guaranteed to effectively lessen their pain.”
― Learning from the Voices in My Head
― Learning from the Voices in My Head
“Sharing things is how things get started, and not sharing things is how they end.”
― Goodbye, Vitamin
― Goodbye, Vitamin
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