Caty
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How hard it can be to differentiate the unspoken from the unspeakable.
“She refuses to let the grief in her heart clobber the resolve in her mind.”
― That's a Great Question, I'd Love to Tell You
― That's a Great Question, I'd Love to Tell You
“It’s amazing that when you don’t anticipate conflict in every interaction and—more importantly—you know how to resolve any actual conflict that (inevitably) arises”
― Autism Partner Handbook, The: How to Love an Autistic Person
― Autism Partner Handbook, The: How to Love an Autistic Person
“We could talk about meditation all day”
― Vegan Health and Spirituality: A Synthesis of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Self-Healing and Universal Compassion to Nurture your Happiness and Joy
― Vegan Health and Spirituality: A Synthesis of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Self-Healing and Universal Compassion to Nurture your Happiness and Joy
“Be as receptive as the hollow bamboo flute The slightest breeze Will awaken your beautiful melody”
― Vegan Health and Spirituality: A Synthesis of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Self-Healing and Universal Compassion to Nurture your Happiness and Joy
― Vegan Health and Spirituality: A Synthesis of Ancient Wisdom, Modern Self-Healing and Universal Compassion to Nurture your Happiness and Joy
“The reputation of the absent parent is the responsibility of the present one. Your children will direct all their anger at him toward you, because you are here and safe and they can trust you not to leave when they get emotional. You must hold space for them to be able to do that.” I remembered how mothers contain and grow life within their hollows. There was space for their feelings within me there. But I also sat in the tension of learning to call what happened to me using correct language, while simultaneously holding that named trauma far enough to the side to remember he was still their dad. Where would he face accountability? Why did mothers have to support the reputations of men who weren’t there? It was as if the support resources—the therapists and investigators and judges—all understood that parental alienation was terrible. But they’d swung so far the other way that there wasn’t a healthy way to hold absent men responsible for their own reputations. Somehow, I had to spread my arms wider and hold it all.”
― A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy
― A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy
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