love is nothing but a test of time if it survives, it’s true if not, it’s all a lie.
“Instead of saying “How could he have lied to me?” you say, “I feel hurt when someone lies to me, because it makes me feel like I’m not worthy of being told the truth.” Instead of saying “He’s not even explaining why!” you say, “I feel sad when someone doesn’t try to resolve an issue, because it makes me feel like I’m not worthy of being fought for.” The “I” statement has three elements: I felt/feel ________ (insert emotion) when ________ (recount the event that happened) because ________ (insert what it made you think of)”
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
“My biggest moments of confusion led me to the best decisions of my life in terms of doing what honors building a home within myself. Being unable to decipher people’s behavior—one day welcoming me into their lives and the next day making me feel like a stranger—led me to feel confused. Because, let’s be honest, confusing behavior in others makes you question yourself. You question your own sanity, your own recollection of events…your own understanding of the events…of the person…of yourself…”
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
“I was waiting for someone to unveil me. To save me. But the hardest, yet most liberating truth, was that I needed to unveil myself. I could easily hide behind my words and hope that someone out there would understand me. But I knew I couldn’t hide anymore.”
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
“You’ve already accomplished the hardest part. So keep building. Keep working on yourself.”
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
“To all the people I pushed away while I was healing: Forgive me for not being able to welcome you when I really wanted to. I was scared. I was scared you’d judge me. I was scared you wouldn’t understand. I was scared you’d ask me how I couldn’t have known better. I was scared you’d push me away and remind me of all the reasons I don’t deserve to be loved. I was scared. Everyone I welcomed before you either lied or left or took more than what I had to give. Everyone I welcomed before you only stayed as long as I was who they wanted me to be instead of who I actually am. I’m sorry I made you feel I couldn’t trust you when the truth was I couldn’t even trust myself.”
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
― Welcome Home: A Guide to Building a Home for Your Soul
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