“And against my better judgment, I was also in love.”
― The Third Gilmore Girl: A Memoir
― The Third Gilmore Girl: A Memoir
“Even when the results are just barely different—the difference between a 7 and a 5 on the pain scale—that still represents the wedge you can use to reshape your life.”
― Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily
― Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards, Find Your Person, and Live Happily
“And thus began another adventure down the hilariously useless rabbit hole of second-guessing.”
― The Third Gilmore Girl: A Memoir
― The Third Gilmore Girl: A Memoir
“And here’s a confession: I hate my father. No, I despise him. The irony is, the bastard thinks everything I’ve done has been for him. The intense training, the full-body bruises, killing myself twenty hours a week in order to better my game. He’s arrogant enough to believe that I put myself through all that for him. But he’s wrong. I do it for me. And to a lesser extent, I do it to beat him. To be better than him.”
― The Deal
― The Deal
“You want to talk about pressure?” Bitterness colors my tone. “Pressure is being seven years old and forced to go on a high-protein diet to promote growth. Pressure is being woken up at the crack of dawn six days a week to skate and run drills while your father blows a whistle in your face for two hours. Pressure is being told that if you fail, you’ll never be a real man.”
― The Deal
― The Deal
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