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Book cover for Our Manhood: Talking About The Aspects of Our Masculinity That Everyone Wants to Forget
They chose a life lived without God, hiding from manhood, living in the fear of failure while basking in a false sense of freedom.
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Curt Thompson
“We push back against the inertia of systemic shame through the weight of a body of people who are collectively engaging in trusting confession, reminding each other of the “great cloud of witnesses.” Thus, the need for us to be regularly gathering in places where we are “finding” each other, just as Jesus found the blind man after he had been put out of the synagogue (John 9:35). He found him and gave him the reward for his trust—seeing Jesus face to face.”
Curt Thompson, The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves

Curt Thompson
“First, shame is not something that infests only individuals. It is endemic in systems, and any system run by it will seek to maintain its equilibrium. Shame will not share its authority.”
Curt Thompson, The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves

Thomas Sowell
“In short, statistical disparities are commonplace among human beings. Many historical and cultural reasons underlie the peculiar patterns observed. But the even “representation” of groups chosen as a baseline for measuring discrimination is a myth rather than an established fact. It is significant that those who have assumed that baseline have seldom, if ever, been challenged to produce evidence.”
Thomas Sowell, Civil Rights: Rhetoric or Reality

Curt Thompson
“It is equally true that in order for me to be liberated from the shame I carry, I need someone to be able to say to me, “You’re right. You were wrong to have done this.” I need to hear that my behavior was really as bad as I think, if not worse, while simultaneously sensing that the person I am confessing to is not leaving. Shame has the effect of coaxing us into pretending that sin is not as bad as it seems; for if it really is that bad, and I have to face it, it would be too much and I fear I would be overwhelmed. When someone seeks forgiveness for the wrong they have committed, we who have been wounded must be able to acknowledge the reality of the pain inflicted if forgiveness is to be real, and if the offender’s shame is to be effectively healed.”
Curt Thompson, The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves

Curt Thompson
“From the family room to the business lunch to the PTA meeting, there is opportunity for shame to be exposed and healed. And in any of these places, that healing may be met with resistance. For this reason we must routinely engage in confessional communities where we can tell our life stories, reminding ourselves of the joy found in the practice of shame-free emotional nakedness.”
Curt Thompson, The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves

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