How we communicate—the unconscious decisions we make as we speak and listen, the questions we ask and the vulnerabilities we expose, even our tone of voice—can influence who we trust, are persuaded by, and seek out as friends.
“Say that again.” Her eyes narrow with confusion. “Which part?” “The last part.” “I want you.”
― In Her Own League
― In Her Own League
“It taught me that if you’re in conversation with the self”
― The Book of Alchemy: A Creative Practice for an Inspired Life
― The Book of Alchemy: A Creative Practice for an Inspired Life
“In many ways”
― On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft
― On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft
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