So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I’m still trying to figure out how that could be.
“Now I think it’s one of the most useless questions an adult can ask a child—What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end.”
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― Becoming
“If you don’t get out there and define yourself, you’ll be quickly and inaccurately defined by others.”
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― Becoming
“failure is a feeling long before it’s an actual result.”
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― Becoming
“Everyone on Earth, they'd tell us, was carrying around an unseen history, and that alone deserved some tolerance.”
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― Becoming
“Now that I’m an adult, I realize that kids know at a very young age when they’re being devalued, when adults aren’t invested enough to help them learn. Their anger over it can manifest itself as unruliness. It’s hardly their fault. They aren’t “bad kids.” They’re just trying to survive bad circumstances.”
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― Becoming
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