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“The pursuit of happiness is a toxic value that has long defined our culture.<...> Living well does not mean avoiding suffering; it means suffering for the right reasons.”
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
“The better things get, the more we perceive threats where there are none, and the more upset we become. And it is at the heart of the paradox of progress.”
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
“It's prosperity that causes crises in hope. It's having six hundred channels and nothing to watch. It's having fifteen matches on Tinder but no one good to date. It's having two thousand restaurants to choose from but feeling sick of all the same old food. Prosperity makes meaning more difficult. It makes pain more acute.”
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
“If you feel okay only when life is happy and easy-breezy-beautiful Cover-Girl, then guess what? You are not free. <...> You are the prisoner of your own indulgences, enslaved by your own intolerance, crippled by your own emotional weakness. You will constantly feel a need for some external comfort or validation that may or may not ever come”
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
“The only true form of freedom, the only ethical form of freedom, is through self-limitation.”
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
― Everything Is F*cked: A Book About Hope
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