Because, just as it is in Malibu’s nature to burn, so was it in one particular person’s nature to set fire and walk away.
“Perhaps when we find ourselves wanting everything, it is because we are dangerously close to wanting nothing.”
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“People cheat because something is lacking in them—connection, empathy, good character. Cheating is about entitlement. You might actually be a crappy spouse, but you did not make your spouse cheat.”
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
“You might have to wait years for them to nosedive, but they will. These are people who have lousy life skills. The older they get, the less they sparkle. It becomes harder to operate on pure entitlement, and it all catches up to them—the debt, the lack of investment in relationships, the booze. Whatever it is, chances are they aren’t going to wise up, get healthy, and face it. They’ll use their same old crappy manipulations with the same old crappy results. Only you won’t be around this time to pin it on. Their new soul mate gets that honor.”
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
“I have the choice of being constantly active and happy or introspectively passive and sad. Or I can go mad by ricocheting in between.”
― The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
― The Unabridged Journals of Sylvia Plath
“You cannot cheat on someone without gaslighting and lying to them, denying their reality, bit by bit, lie by lie. Stifling their suspicions, turning it back on them, and accusing them of being crazy and oversensitive. Infidelity subverts chumps’ sense of normalcy and makes them question the solidity of everything. Who knew? Why didn’t they tell me? Did my in-laws know? Have my friends welcomed the affair partner into their circle? Did my kids know? Were they introduced? Is every single fucking thing in my life polluted?”
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
― Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
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