“I never feel anything,” I whisper. “But every time I remember how little
you think of yourself, I feel angry. I feel like banishing anyone and everyone
who ever made you believe you deserve to be alone. Because that kind of pain,
it– it can ruin people, it can make them lose faith in everything, just like
Hamlet did, but you? You look at me more than anyone ever has, and no one
ever looks twice at me. I’m a skull in a graveyard. I’m empty.”
― I Fell in Love With Hope
you think of yourself, I feel angry. I feel like banishing anyone and everyone
who ever made you believe you deserve to be alone. Because that kind of pain,
it– it can ruin people, it can make them lose faith in everything, just like
Hamlet did, but you? You look at me more than anyone ever has, and no one
ever looks twice at me. I’m a skull in a graveyard. I’m empty.”
― I Fell in Love With Hope
“Beware of getting involved with people who seem to be able to feel good but have no close friends. They may be witty and fun to be around, but their humor is all put-downs and hostility. If you marry such a person, you will soon be the recipient of that hostile humor and may regret it for the rest of your marriage. Look for someone who has good friends whom he or she treats well and whom you enjoy being with, too. Someone who does not have good friends does not know how to love.”
― Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
― Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
“Forgive me, for all the things I did but mostly for the ones that I did not.”
― The Secret History
― The Secret History
“You can justify anything if you do it poetically enough.”
― If We Were Villains
― If We Were Villains
“Wisdom consists of knowing how to distinguish the nature of trouble, and in choosing the lesser evil.”
― The Prince
― The Prince
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