“People have this delusion of inherent purpose as if fate is written in stone when really the pen has always been in our hands”
― I Fell in Love With Hope
― I Fell in Love With Hope
“You know you never wanted us to be happy, Sam. Happiness is a brittle,
fleeting thing.
You wanted us to feel loved, and we did”
― I Fell in Love With Hope
fleeting thing.
You wanted us to feel loved, and we did”
― I Fell in Love With Hope
“Forgive me, for all the things I did but mostly for the ones that I did not.”
― The Secret History
― The Secret History
“He who builds on the people, builds on the mud”
― The Prince
― The Prince
“a lot of people have not found anyone they can trust and enjoy being with. They may have been rejected or abused, and they begin to give up on happiness, on feeling good in a relationship. In many instances, they discover that there are ways to find pleasure without relationships. To feel good, they begin to replace people pictures with nonpeople pleasure pictures—pictures of violence, drugs, and unloving sex—in their quality worlds. As they do so, they separate themselves further from people and happiness, compounding the urgency of their problem. The more lonely they get, the less they are able to accept that they have rejected people and the more they believe that people have rejected them.”
― Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
― Choice Theory: A New Psychology of Personal Freedom
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