“Yes, of course duct tape works in a near-vacuum. Duct tape works anywhere. Duct tape is magic and should be worshiped.”
― The Martian
― The Martian
“At the head of all understanding – is realizing what is and what cannot be, and the consoling of what is not in our power to change.”
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“If the world is like a giant scheming court and we are trapped inside it, there is no use in trying to opt out of the game. That will only render you powerless, and powerlessness will make you miserable. Instead of struggling against the inevitable, instead of arguing and whining and feeling guilty, it is far better to excel at power. In fact, the better you are at dealing with power, the better friend, lover, husband, wife, and person you become. By following the route of the perfect courtier (see Law 24) you learn to make others feel better about themselves, becoming a source of pleasure to them. They will grow dependent on your abilities and desirous of your presence. By mastering the 48 laws in this book, you spare others the pain that comes from bungling with power—by playing with fire without knowing its properties. If the game of power is inescapable, better to be an artist than a denier or a bungler.”
― The 48 Laws of Power
― The 48 Laws of Power
“But in the meantime all the life you have or ever will have is today, tonight, tomorrow, today, tonight, tomorrow, over and over again (I hope), ...”
― For Whom the Bell Tolls
― For Whom the Bell Tolls
“Because people like to be liked, pretending to be aloof and only mildly interested in someone is a dumb way to try to
attract him or her. Playing hard to get doesn’t work. What does work is being
selectively hard to get—that is, being a difficult catch for everyone but the person you’re trying to attract (Walster et al., 1973). Those who can afford to say
“no” to most people but who are happy to say “yes” to us are the most alluring
potential partners of all.”
― Intimate Relationships
attract him or her. Playing hard to get doesn’t work. What does work is being
selectively hard to get—that is, being a difficult catch for everyone but the person you’re trying to attract (Walster et al., 1973). Those who can afford to say
“no” to most people but who are happy to say “yes” to us are the most alluring
potential partners of all.”
― Intimate Relationships
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