How do you make your life your own and not feel guilt over it?
“Even when the world seems to stop, threatening to crumble, and the hour feels dark as the siren rings … it isn’t a crime to feel joy.”
― Divine Rivals
― Divine Rivals
“But Joan knew she felt less buzz because she also felt no fear. There could be no danger between them when they made each other this safe. This wasn’t romance—Joan was sure of it. It was something much deeper. Something that”
― Atmosphere
― Atmosphere
“You can’t trauma-proof life, and you can’t hurt-proof your relationships. You have to accept you will cause harm to yourself and others. But you can also fuck up, really badly, and not learn anything from it except that you fucked up. It’s the same with oppression. You don’t gain any special knowledge from being marginalized. But you do gain something from stepping outside your hurt and examining the scaffolding of your oppression. You’ll find the weak joints, the things you can kick in.”
― The Ministry of Time
― The Ministry of Time
“The trees need our breath”
― Atmosphere
― Atmosphere
“often think about what would happen if, for just one day, women everywhere refused to overextend themselves. I truly believe the world as we know it would crumble. Remembering people’s birthdays, cleaning clothes, cooking, tidying up after others, anticipating others’ needs, being polite to men who make us uncomfortable, doing our makeup in the mornings and skincare routine before bed, offering our help without any real acknowledgment for it. Women are often in positions where they have to constantly remind others to take care of themselves, neglecting themselves in the process. This is why self-care is uniquely important for women and marginalized genders.”
― Women Don't Owe You Pretty
― Women Don't Owe You Pretty
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