Maggie ✨

“I think we all wear armor. I think those who don’t are fools, risking the pain of being wounded by the sharp edges of the world, over and over again. But if I’ve learned anything from those fools, it’s that to be vulnerable is a strength most of us fear. It takes courage to let down your armor, to welcome people to see you as you are.”
― Rebecca Ross, Divine Rivals

“but I know what it feels like to lose someone you love. To feel as if you’re left behind, or like your life is in shambles and there’s no guidebook to tell you how to stitch it back together. But time will slowly heal you, as it is doing for me. There are good days and there are difficult days. Your grief will never fully fade; it will always be with you—a shadow you carry in your soul—but it will become fainter as your life becomes brighter. You will learn to live outside of it again, as impossible as that may sound. Others who share your pain will also help you heal. Because you are not alone. Not in your fear or your grief or your hopes or your dreams. You are not alone.”
― Rebecca Ross, Divine Rivals

“In Elliott (Rodgers)’s world, the unspoken law was that women owed him sex. We existed only to receive him. Those were the rules, that was our purpose. Sex was his right, and our responsibility. The punishment in his world for breaking his laws, for rejecting sex, was death.”
― Chanel Miller, Know My Name

“In a film literature class I once took, Mr. Hernandez showed us the scene in Jaws where Martin, the lead, is about to get on the boat, and is saying good-bye to his wife, Ellen. Ellen is worried about losing him, but instead of saying, ‘Please be careful, I love you’, she says ‘I put an extra pair of glasses in your… black socks and… and there’s the stuff… your nose, the zinc oxide, the Blistex is in the kit’. And in response, instead of saying ‘Don’t worry, I’ll come back for you’, he says ‘Don’t use the fireplace in the den, because I haven’t fixed the floo yet’. She nods and says, ‘What am I going to tell the kids?’ He says ‘Tell them I’m going fishing’.

Love is implied, love is the black socks she packed, the promise he’ll return to fix the floo, the desire to protect the kids, the detailed attention to each other’s lives, the urgency of comforting one another amidst the gravity of what’s about to happen. The most important messages are felt, never stated explicitly.”
― Chanel Miller, Know My Name