“My grandmother always said women with red hair could divine things, especially freckled ones like you, my dear.” My mother’s hair had
“So is setting an example for your niece about how she doesn’t need to turn herself inside out to be loved. How she doesn’t need to set herself on fire to keep someone else warm. Demanding to have your own needs met isn’t problematic—it’s heroic, and kids are watching. They’re always watching. If you set an example that tells her the only way she’s worthy of love is by giving everyone everything, she’ll internalize that message.” I dropped my”
― Things We Never Got Over
― Things We Never Got Over
“The Fraud Police are the imaginary, terrifying force of 'real' grown-ups who you believe - at some subconscious level - are going to come knocking on your door in the middle of the night, saying:
We've been watching you, and we have evidence that you have NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE DOING. You stand accused of the crime of completely winging it, you are guilty of making shit up as you go along, you do not actually deserve your job, we are taking everything away and we are TELLING EVERYBODY.”
― The Art of Asking; or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help
We've been watching you, and we have evidence that you have NO IDEA WHAT YOU'RE DOING. You stand accused of the crime of completely winging it, you are guilty of making shit up as you go along, you do not actually deserve your job, we are taking everything away and we are TELLING EVERYBODY.”
― The Art of Asking; or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help
“When you trust someone to see you for who you really are, the betrayal is a thousand times worse than if you hadn’t handed them the weapons in the first place,” Lucian spoke quietly.”
― Things We Never Got Over
― Things We Never Got Over
“At some point, you have got to stop worrying so much about what everyone else needs and start thinking about what you need.”
― Things We Never Got Over
― Things We Never Got Over
“There’s a difference between taking care of someone because you love them and taking care of someone because you want them to love you,” she continued. There was a big difference. One of them was genuine and giving, and the other was manipulative, controlling.”
― Things We Never Got Over
― Things We Never Got Over
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