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“I wonder,” she said. “About what?” “What makes a man?” Her face was covered in shadow. Her hand never left my hair. “If all he knows is stripped away, what is it that remains?”
“When others call into question our grief, defy our perennial relationship with those we love who have died, treat us as anathema and avoid us, and push us toward healing before we are ready, they simply redouble our burden. It almost seems that the only way to eradicate our grief would be to relinquish the love we feel — to disassemble our loved one’s place in our lives. But checking in with the wisdom of our heart, we see that is impossible. Grief and love occur in tandem.”
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
“Seeking to forget makes exile all the longer; the secret to redemption lies in remembrance. — RICHARD VON WEIZSÄCKER”
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
“You'll stay with me?"
"Until the very end," said James.
"They won't be able to see you?" asked Harry.
"We are part of you," said Sirius. "Invisible to anyone else.”
― Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows
"Until the very end," said James.
"They won't be able to see you?" asked Harry.
"We are part of you," said Sirius. "Invisible to anyone else.”
― Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows
“Death feels savage, and to some extent, it is — but grief need not be vilified.”
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
― Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
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