Denial is also the weirdest stage of grief because it so closely mimics stupidity.
“It takes courage to quit something, but often you get that courage back with dividends.”
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
“First: white supremacy is, most fundamentally, a system of power designed to channel material resources to people socially defined as white. Second: white supremacy is not just neo-Nazis and white nationalism. It’s also the way our society has come to be structured, such that political, economic, and other forms of capital are predominately maintained by elite whites.”
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
― How to Be Less Stupid About Race: On Racism, White Supremacy, and the Racial Divide
“A good quit feels powerful. Deciding what you won’t have in your life is as important as deciding what you will have. Trying out something you expect to love, realizing you don’t really love it, and giving it back, that takes guts.”
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
― I Miss You When I Blink: Essays
“Racism should never have happened and so you don't get a cookie for reducing it.”
― Americanah
― Americanah
“The most expeditious way to get past an unpleasant emotional experience is to embrace it and to fully feel and express it.”
― The Tao of Fully Feeling: Harvesting Forgiveness out of Blame
― The Tao of Fully Feeling: Harvesting Forgiveness out of Blame
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