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[entry 5]

hot words
- not fact
- avoid & swap w/ facts

confirmation bias

self justifying clever stories
- victim
- villain
- helpless

transform clever -> useful
- clever = incomplete
- tell rest of story
- victors -> actors
- villains -> people
- helpless -> able
- return to original motive"
Apr 20, 2026 07:29PM

 
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George Orwell
“Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood.”
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“Who controls the past controls the future. Who controls the present controls the past.”
George Orwell, 1984

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Sophocles, Oedipus Rex

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“How dreadful the knowledge of the truth can be
When there’s no help in truth.”
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