Jimil

“I’ve come to recognize this as something of a local custom—to express enthusiasm and agreement without real interest. A kind of polite but unyielding distance that saturates so many interactions. But now, their raised eyebrows and tight-lipped smiles fill me with a new sadness, clarifying where I stand in their eyes. Theirs isn’t the gaze of a mentor upon a student but a fixed asymmetry. They look at me as though I am a child whom they can tolerate at the table as long as I know my place. For years, I’ve sensed this violent but hidden truth—that beyond the welcome smiles of this country lies a vast and impenetrable wall: a national self-regard that insists on a mythic goodness. This is a nation that gives and gives to the less fortunate and asks nothing in return. Nothing, that is, but our grateful acquiescence to their silent expectations.”
― Tsering Yangzom Lama, We Measure the Earth with Our Bodies

“They will not be satisfied with our land alone. They want to possess our minds.”
― Tsering Yangzom Lama, We Measure the Earth with Our Bodies

“The trouble with letting people see you at your worst isn’t that they’ll remember; it’s that you’ll remember. —Sarah Manguso”
― Carmen Maria Machado, In the Dream House

“This man doesn’t understand anything outside his own terms. Power, survival, domination—these are the bricks of his mind.”
― Tsering Yangzom Lama, We Measure the Earth with Our Bodies