“No one wins when you compare. You don’t win. Your family doesn’t win. Your friends don’t win. You must be in control and not let comparison take hold of your mind. Rather, focus on yourself, your family, and where God has you in your life.”
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
“Now, you might be saying, “Jessica, I am not crafty.” I hear you. But I am not talking about crafts. I am talking about living out the God-given passions that are inside of us. Creativity isn’t crafting; it is any original expression you pursue—running, playing music, gardening, sewing, cooking, and so on are all creative acts. Even activities like volunteering and throwing parties are creative pursuits because by giving of ourselves for others we are expressing ourselves in a meaningful way. Moreover, these are activities that inspire us in an indescribable way. And when we make room in our days to include them, we feel more alive and joyful.”
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
“The reason so many women today struggle to make themselves a priority is because they are trying to be everything for everyone.”
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
“I made a decision a long time ago that I was going to choose joy. I even painted a big rectangle on my wall and printed it in big letters so I wouldn’t forget to make that choice every day. The major word in that rectangle isn’t joy, it’s CHOOSE. It’s looking around me when life is difficult and trading every complaint I have for something beautiful in my life that far outweighs it. I know, it’s that Pollyanna personified thing again, but living joyful beats being cynical any day of the week.”
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
“Good enough is not about aiming lower or doing less or slacking off. It’s about knowing that what’s good enough for one woman isn’t necessarily what’s good enough for another. And that if we’re living up to our own standards, there isn’t anything more to want. Some people call this perfect. We call it the New Perfect.”8”
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
― The Fringe Hours: Making Time for You
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