Jason Earle

“The human problem, as Watts sees it, is the attempt to gain control of the “streaming,” a habitual tension that sets up a chronic frustration, the belief that force or effort or will can solve our difficulties.”
― Monica Furlong, Zen Effects: The Life of Alan Watts

“You are responsible for your life,” he roared, lecturing a group of us one night. “The sooner you see how you have determined your fate, the sooner and more completely you will have the life you want.” I understood his point, but the more I thought about it, the more I found myself questioning it. My mind wandered to many of the difficulties that I had had to contend with through no fault of my own: my parents’ separation and subsequent divorce when I was a child; being raised by a single mother who had less money than most of the parents whose children I grew up with; having a father who was someone I was in awe of from afar more than a real or loving presence in my life. The more I considered it, the more convinced I became that I had had little to do with the circumstances determining my fate, and the more Mani’s statement bothered me. It certainly wasn’t a particularly enlightened or compassionate view of the world, I thought, reflecting on the lives of other people I knew whose circumstances were far less fortunate than mine, also through no fault of their own. My attention drifted back to Mani’s words just in time to hear him acknowledge that no one controls all the circumstances in which they find themselves. Hurricanes, earthquakes, fires, misfortune, blighted childhoods, abuse, war, and disease are not things that anyone consciously chooses. “However,” he continued, holding to his point, “because you choose how you will respond to these circumstances, it is you and only you who, in the end, has and will determine your destiny.” I left the lecture that night with the words “You are responsible for your life” bouncing in my head. It would be a while before I would come to accept them completely.”
― Rod Stryker, The Four Desires: Creating a Life of Purpose, Happiness, Prosperity, and Freedom

“Philosophy’s purpose is to illuminate the ways our soul has been infected by unsound beliefs, untrained tumultuous desires, and dubious life choices and preferences that are unworthy of us. Self-scrutiny applied with kindness is the main antidote.”
― Epictetus, The Art of Living: The Classical Manual on Virtue, Happiness, and Effectiveness

“the core of a fulfilled life is knowing that every moment is a choice.”
― Rod Stryker, The Four Desires: Creating a Life of Purpose, Happiness, Prosperity, and Freedom