“Couples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.”
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
“God created us with sexual passion so that there would be language to describe what it means to cleave to him in love and what it means to turn away from him to others.”
― Sex and the Supremacy of Christ
― Sex and the Supremacy of Christ
“It is possible to feel you are “madly in love” with someone, when it is really just an attraction to someone who can meet your needs and address the insecurities and doubts you have about yourself. In that kind of relationship, you will demand and control rather than serve and give. The only way to avoid sacrificing your partner’s joy and freedom on the altar of your need is to turn to the ultimate lover of your soul. He voluntarily sacrificed himself on the cross, taking what you deserved for your sins against God and others. On the cross he was forsaken and experienced the lostness of hell, but he did it all for us. Because of the loving sacrifice of the Son, you can know the heaven of the Father’s love through the work of the Spirit. Jesus truly “built a heaven in hell’s despair.” And fortified with the love of God in your soul, you likewise can now give yourself in loving service to your spouse. “We love—because he first loved us” (1 John 4:19).”
― The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
― The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God
“God's solution for "I can't live that way anymore" is basically, "Good! Don't live that way anymore. Set firm limits against evil behavior that are designed to promote change and redemption. Get the love and support you need from other places to take the kind of stance that I do to help redeem relationship. Suffer long, but suffer in the right way." And when done God's way, chances are much better for redemption.”
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
“When you cease to blame your spous eand own the problem as yours, you are then empowered to make changes to solve your problem.”
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
― Boundaries in Marriage: Understanding the Choices That Make or Break Loving Relationships
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