“I could not separate the Bird Refuge from my family. Devastation respects no boundaries. The landscape of my childhood and the landscape of my family, the two things I had always regarded as bedrock, were now subject to change. Quicksand.”
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
“I pray to the birds. I pray to the birds because I believe they will carry the messages of my heart upward. I pray to them because I believe in their existence, the way their songs begin and end each day—the invocations and benedictions of Earth. I pray to the birds because they remind me of what I love rather than what I fear. And at the end of my prayers, they teach me how to listen.”
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
“Today, I feel stronger, learning to live within the natural cycles of a day and to not expect so much from myself. As women, we hold the moon in our bellies. It is too much to ask to operate on full-moon energy three hundred and sixty-five days a year. I am in a crescent phase. And the energy we expend emotionally belongs to the hidden side of the moon.”
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
“Grief dares us to love once more.”
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
“Suffering shows us what we are attached to—perhaps the umbilical cord between Mother and me has never been cut. Dying doesn't cause suffering. Resistance to dying does.”
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
― Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place
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