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Mitch Harden
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When we rely on the structure of our relationship, whether that is through being monogamous with someone or practicing hierarchical forms of CNM, we run the risk of forgetting that secure attachment is an embodied expression built upon how
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Yup! It is so easy to lean on the structures of a relationship and to use those structures as 'cover' for attachemnt-related issues. And, those structures are so well-entrenched in monog-normative socialization that we often believe them to be the healthy underpinning of a relationship. Unlearning the primacy of structure and hierarchy has been a fascinating part of my poly journey.
“Unprovoked brawls have become my friend. I’ve stopped attending most classes and combat-training blocks, filling that time with parties and drinking.”
― The Blood Trials
― The Blood Trials
“Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea.”
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Mitch’s 2025 Year in Books
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