Jane Ozera

“We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.”
― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, We Should All Be Feminists

“It means everything has always been easy for you. You’re handsome, intelligent, you have a family who loves you and women who lay down for you like sacrificial lambs. And the one time you have to struggle for something you want―the one time you have to risk your heart for someone who’s finally worth it―what do you do? You give up. You shoot first and ask questions later. You curl up in a ball and wallow in self-pity.”
― Emma Chase, Tangled

“I liked projects where I could take things apart and figure out exactly how they worked. The problem is, you can't do that with people.”
― Leila Sales, This Song Will Save Your Life

“Anything that’s worth having is worth fighting for. Love is a strange thing. It shows up when you least expect it and defies expectation.”
― H. M. Ward