“But one of the saddest, most deprecating misuses of power is the withholding of love, affirmation, and delight from other people. Few things keep people in line with our wishes more than an attitude of reserve or aloofness. It is paradoxical that in the power struggle of relationships, the one who loves and encourages the least, gains the most power. This puts people on edge, keeps them guessing, and plays on their need for assurance about their worth.”
― Lord of the Loose Ends: The Secret of Getting Your Life Under Control
― Lord of the Loose Ends: The Secret of Getting Your Life Under Control
“There is no division nor subtraction in the heart-arithmetic of a good mother. There are only addition and multiplication.”
― A Lantern in Her Hand
― A Lantern in Her Hand
“Christmas Eve was a night of song that wrapped itself about you like a shawl. But it warmed more than your body. It warmed your heart...filled it, too, with melody that would last forever.”
― Song of Years
― Song of Years
“For though love has been ridiculed and disgraced, exchanged and bartered, dragged through the courts, and sold for thirty pieces of silver, the bright, steady glow of its fire still shines on the hearth-stones of countless homes...”
― A White Bird Flying
― A White Bird Flying
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