Adam Werley

“The “Infidelity is a symptom of larger marital issues” argument implies that if you “cure” the marriage, the infidelity will disappear. Aside from the fact that the majority of cheaters report that they are happily married, it’s not unhappiness that makes people cheat—it’s poor character. Yes, they may be unhappy. People often are. It’s what you choose to do about it.”
― Tracy Schorn, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The No-Nonsense Guide to Taking Back Your Life After Infidelity

“I love the homecoming because I have known what it is to leave. I have seen the city I love from the sky just as I have seen the city I love from the cracks in between metal bars. Cherish the homecoming, because you know what lasts forever and what does not.”
― Hanif Abdurraqib, There's Always This Year: On Basketball and Ascension

“I need to be in a relationship where I am fully loved and respected. You don’t love me the way I deserve to be loved. Buh-bye.” Don’t ask yourself what you did to be so unlovable. Don’t dance the pick-me dance. Just let go. I’m sure the butterflies will be migrating again soon.”
― Tracy Schorn, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The No-Nonsense Guide to Taking Back Your Life After Infidelity

“You are not responsible for being cheated on. That isn’t your fault. But you are entirely responsible for how you respond to abuse. That is on us, chumps. Trust that they suck. And trust that you do not suck and deserve better.”
― Tracy Schorn, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life: The No-Nonsense Guide to Taking Back Your Life After Infidelity