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People We Meet on Vacation

by Emily Henry (Goodreads Author)

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The Guest List

by Lucy Foley (Goodreads Author)

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All Fours

by Miranda July (Goodreads Author)

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Trick Mirror by Jia Tolentino

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The everyday madness perpetuated by the internet is the madness of this architecture, which positions personal identity as the center of the universe. It’s as if we’ve been placed on a lookout that oversees the entire world and given a pair ...more

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“Barre feels like exercise the way Sweetgreen feels like eating: both might better be categorized as mechanisms that help you adapt to arbitrary, prolonged agony.”
― Jia Tolentino, Trick Mirror

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“Has anyone ever written a great novel about a woman who is happy in her marriage? Of course, most protagonists are unhappy. But heroes are mostly unhappy for existential reasons; heroines suffer for social reasons, because of male power, because of men.”
― Jia Tolentino, Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

tags: feminism, happiness, literature, marriage, women

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