“bulk of problems people have could be solved by saying, “I love you but I won't tolerate that”. And meaning it.”
― Self-Compassion - I Don’t Have To Feel Better Than Others To Feel Good About Myself: Learn How To See Self Esteem Through The Lens Of Self-Love and Mindfulness and Cultivate The Courage To Be You
― Self-Compassion - I Don’t Have To Feel Better Than Others To Feel Good About Myself: Learn How To See Self Esteem Through The Lens Of Self-Love and Mindfulness and Cultivate The Courage To Be You
“I bought five purses in the span of a few weeks. Every time, I’d purr over my new purchase for a couple of days. But those jolts of happiness were short-lived. I’d inevitably get bored and start shopping for a new one. The hunt was intoxicating but the good feels never lasted.”
― Quit Like a Millionaire: No Gimmicks, Luck, or Trust Fund Required
― Quit Like a Millionaire: No Gimmicks, Luck, or Trust Fund Required
“Poor people buy stuff. The middle class buys houses. Rich people buy investments.”
― Quit Like a Millionaire: No Gimmicks, Luck, or Trust Fund Required
― Quit Like a Millionaire: No Gimmicks, Luck, or Trust Fund Required
“Our assumption that we are directly interacting with physical reality closely parallels the way we respond to the image on a computer screen. Moving a computer’s mouse appears to move the cursor around the screen. In reality, the mouse is sending a stream of data to the central processor, which calculates a new position for the cursor and then updates the image on the screen. In early computers there was a noticeable delay between issuing a command and seeing the effects on the screen. Today computers are so fast they can recalculate the image on a screen in a fraction of a second, and there is no visible delay between the movement of the mouse and the cursor on the screen. We experience moving the cursor across the screen. Our experience of daily life is similar. When I kick a stone, my intention to move my foot is communicated to my body, and my foot in the physical world moves to meet the physical stone. But I do not experience the interaction directly. The brain receives the information sent back by the eyes and body and updates my image of reality appropriately.”
― From Science to God: A Physicist s Journey into the Mystery of Consciousness
― From Science to God: A Physicist s Journey into the Mystery of Consciousness
“True love is made of four elements: loving kindness, compassion, joy, and equanimity. In Sanskrit, these are, maitri, karuna, mudita, and upeksha.”
― How To Love
― How To Love
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