“For a long time, I wanted people to change--to be less cruel, to be decent, to be fair, to tell the truth. That would be lovely. But I'm not waiting around for that. I'm deciding who gets to enter my spaces, my heart, my mind, my living room, because I'm responsible for those places, no one else. I'm responsible to protect my mind, my heart, my family.”
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
“Hospitality is holding space for another person to be seen and heard and loved. It’s giving someone a place to be when they’d otherwise be alone. It’s, as my friend Sibyl says, when someone leaves your home feeling better about themselves, not better about you.”
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
“Another way to look at it: self-compassion and self-care are acts of obedience, stewarding well what God has given to us, loving what he loves.”
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
“Self-compassion is letting yourself off the hook, letting yourself be human and flawed and also amazing. It’s giving yourself credit for showing up instead of beating yourself up for taking so long to get there.”
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
“I’m learning to choose myself instead of giving the best of myself to people and relationships and institutions. Loyalty to myself. Belonging to myself. Looking for joy just for myself. I need a disproportionate amount of care right now, and the one who is responsible for that care is me. I can’t assume that someone else will do it; it’s my responsibility to create a rhythm for my life that nurtures me, that brings me joy, that allows me to flourish, even given the weight of things I’m carrying.”
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
― I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working
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